To me, it appears social creativeness and our sharpness of intellect, but I prefer the creativity and thus the creative intelligence. I like her idea.
Her idea is to jump the hurdle without removing it from the track, so she breaks my silence,
“Drishta, come on; use your sixth sense, OK!”
Sunday, May 31, 2009
How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth for Enhancing Emotional Energy for Good Moods - 4
“Well, you see it’s simply the frequency that decides the pitch, sound and voice. It seems to me that frequency in light and sound share waves, if we assume it as the infra side of it. Does it sound right?” I said.
“You’re right at very reduced level of amplitude of light waves the waves of sound appear to have a close simile as that’s in the ultraviolet rays showing the low level as if red or thermal energy to the conductors. The sound of two people in resonance adds frequency giving something very different and you may wonder if hundred people sing in resonance and rhythm. It makes a wonderful effect on our emotional energy?” He said smilingly.
“You keep on adding energy to emotional energy as if sketching an elephant. Isn’t it?” I said.
“You’re right at very reduced level of amplitude of light waves the waves of sound appear to have a close simile as that’s in the ultraviolet rays showing the low level as if red or thermal energy to the conductors. The sound of two people in resonance adds frequency giving something very different and you may wonder if hundred people sing in resonance and rhythm. It makes a wonderful effect on our emotional energy?” He said smilingly.
“You keep on adding energy to emotional energy as if sketching an elephant. Isn’t it?” I said.
How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth for Light and Sound in a Self Created Way - 3
The making of new meanings for refreshing our feelings as the changes in the moods seemed his taste and way of discussing. I looked as his face with a smile knowing that the honeybee with butterfly does not enjoy only the beauty of the flower, but also knows how to extract the honey, the wisdom of the flower.
It was the exaltation of knowledge to the edges of wisdom, though in his words it was wisdom of candle as we were following the same thought on two tracks, the simile was one for three the honeybee, butterfly and the candle.
He did not break the light of wisdom by turning his back to it as he carried the discussion,
It was the exaltation of knowledge to the edges of wisdom, though in his words it was wisdom of candle as we were following the same thought on two tracks, the simile was one for three the honeybee, butterfly and the candle.
He did not break the light of wisdom by turning his back to it as he carried the discussion,
How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth to Bear the Wisdom of Light - Going Beyond Meaning - 2
“Well, you know; we are sensitive to light when we consider our eyes, for which the light is medium and if our eyes act like conductors, it’ll emit water only. Isn’t it rejecting light and light glares?” He said.
He and Monica smiled together. They had the affinity of thoughts and emotions.
He and Monica smiled together. They had the affinity of thoughts and emotions.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth to Protect Body, Mind and Energy - 1
Please read this series in continuity with the Previous Parts as the base for it. Now, we are having more focus on the Law of Affinity to boost the Law of Attraction because both are one as if two sides of a coin and our picking a stick from any side. Thanks!
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed about Ideals of Life and Time Investment - 25
“Well, you see it depends on how we use it. Our human body as a conductor for both lights in any cosmic form bears the effects which influence us by different means and I wonder if we can escape from the bad effect on our health care and its management. There’s no harm in energy in different forms, like light, thermal and associated radiation energy. If we learn to use our body as a natural conductor like taking sunbath, it heals us. These natural concepts work as ideals that we use in our common sense and daily life. It’s same as candle and wood,” he said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling Igniting Evergreen Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life We Ever Dream and Learn from Microwaves - 24
“You are right, but the microwaves are particle side of light. Like in bulbs when it gives light and heat the thing that works behind it the intensity and speed of flow of electrons producing the effect on the kind of conductor it is passing through. We can’t get light from the wire of iron as a conductor as it can give heat energy in reddish color. Is it right?” He asked.
“Wow, it seems amazing, isn’t it? You’re right, but what it has to do with microwaves?” I asked.
“Wow, it seems amazing, isn’t it? You’re right, but what it has to do with microwaves?” I asked.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling Igniting Evergreen Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life We Ever Dream with Language of Tongue - 23
“Well, you see it’s the proper use of light energy. You know the light in different colors have different effects as particle and wave. For example, the red color carries high thermal energy and the blue carries the high level of frequency and vibrations. It has its effects very significant when we discuss about infrared and ultra violet. Isn’t it?” I said.
I felt happy with my knowledge about light and colors. The perfection of knowledge is not attainable, yet sometimes what we know seems perfect. This feeling keeps us behaving like a kid; this is what I felt while I replied to him.
I felt happy with my knowledge about light and colors. The perfection of knowledge is not attainable, yet sometimes what we know seems perfect. This feeling keeps us behaving like a kid; this is what I felt while I replied to him.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling Igniting Evergreen Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life We Ever Dream as a Thought Waves of Flying Smile Moving towards Destination - 22
The way he was answering touching the level, which was new, though I could access. As I was not familiar with these topics for all intents and purposes, so I again could not find the proper answer.
However, I know that my not understanding any idea or thought does not falsify it. Rather, it creates the grounds for arrival of light of clarity as if emerging from the affinity of thoughts, which otherwise seem contradictory.
“You see it seems to me that light alone can’t give us heat and fire. Please tell me about which light are you talking?” I said.
However, I know that my not understanding any idea or thought does not falsify it. Rather, it creates the grounds for arrival of light of clarity as if emerging from the affinity of thoughts, which otherwise seem contradictory.
“You see it seems to me that light alone can’t give us heat and fire. Please tell me about which light are you talking?” I said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed as if a Child without being Childish - 21
“Well, you know when we’re in deep sleep we’re like the paraffin, on waking up we come to the conscious level, it’s melting such that our senses start to work consciously and burn calories. The burning of calories accompanies it naturally, as if burning of the wood; so, we start our daily routine, isn’t it?” He said.
“Yaw; it’s wonderful and what about thread and fire. Is there something common in these?” I said.
“Yaw; it’s wonderful and what about thread and fire. Is there something common in these?” I said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling Igniting Evergreen Winning Spirit for Facing the Genocide Bravely in Modern World for me - My Experiences in Australia as Overseas Student - 20
The Australia is getting a victim of the global racism in which courtiers are being forced to have more weapons and arms. The defense is what sacks and sucks all the funds that people earn. If the citizens of Australia, particularly those, who are involved in attacking the overseas people, particularly the Indian students need to note it seriously that world is leading towards a market of space science and technology and the many developed countries have this trade of selling the best security and scrutiny system, which the ordinary people can solve without forces and the peace corps, just by cooperating one another.
The Australia has a long history of not involving in any kind of global violence, war and terrorism. Now, what is happening does not appear to be the Australian mind working behind the violent activities. Once, I strongly stated in the school debates in the Muirden Matriculation College, Adelaide, South Australia that the Australians are getting the servants of the foreign companies in the local market and one day they will be the puppets. I was rebuked for making such a rude statement. I had to make it clear to get accepted as a warning for better future of Australia.
The Australia has a long history of not involving in any kind of global violence, war and terrorism. Now, what is happening does not appear to be the Australian mind working behind the violent activities. Once, I strongly stated in the school debates in the Muirden Matriculation College, Adelaide, South Australia that the Australians are getting the servants of the foreign companies in the local market and one day they will be the puppets. I was rebuked for making such a rude statement. I had to make it clear to get accepted as a warning for better future of Australia.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling Igniting Evergreen Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life We Ever Dream as a Gardner of Life - Honeybee at Flower Bites - 19
It was a new idea for me. I have a weakness that is the base of my strength, I cannot allow any thought, idea or emotion enters into my mind without grasping the ideals behind it.
It made me realize how one defends and protects the thoughts, ideas and emotions with such rich feelings as if a fence of flowers surrounding all around.
No wonder it is an aura. Even then, it seems to many people that this fence is offensive, as if offense lacking the common sense, however again it is the social view of common sense, otherwise it is sign of wisdom and genius.
How hard it can be for the gardener of the fence to pluck the flower.
It made me realize how one defends and protects the thoughts, ideas and emotions with such rich feelings as if a fence of flowers surrounding all around.
No wonder it is an aura. Even then, it seems to many people that this fence is offensive, as if offense lacking the common sense, however again it is the social view of common sense, otherwise it is sign of wisdom and genius.
How hard it can be for the gardener of the fence to pluck the flower.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling Igniting Evergreen Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life We Ever Dream in Compassion for Nature and Society - 18
“Can you tell me, please; what does light and heat represent, Bhagouauty?” I said to him.
“You see the foods on the plants and trees never get cold while we talk, discuss, think and feel about it. Anyway, you’re talking about light and heat, the need of all living things, isn’t it. Well, the light is common in both fires that of wood and candle, but both of the heats are different. One is like wisdom of light and the other is like wisdom for work. Both combined together give wisdom of work, the creative intelligence supported by intelligence. It’s a practical approach, isn’t it?” He said.
“You see the foods on the plants and trees never get cold while we talk, discuss, think and feel about it. Anyway, you’re talking about light and heat, the need of all living things, isn’t it. Well, the light is common in both fires that of wood and candle, but both of the heats are different. One is like wisdom of light and the other is like wisdom for work. Both combined together give wisdom of work, the creative intelligence supported by intelligence. It’s a practical approach, isn’t it?” He said.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed - Going Beyond Bipolar - 17
“Well, you know; in the burning of wood the wood is directly consumed by the fire. So the burning of wood and candle follow different paths and we can make cup of tea on the burning wood, isn’t it?” He asked.
He never misses passing a smile to Monica and me. It is smile of joy, not of winning an argument.
The taste of discussion needs a flavor of argument-not just arguing to win the discussion because that is debate, though I believe that arguing and debate together can support a good discussion-the discussion does not have any other option, but sharing-again it has no room for arguing, so I was sure that he would not have answer for my next question as I asked him,
He never misses passing a smile to Monica and me. It is smile of joy, not of winning an argument.
The taste of discussion needs a flavor of argument-not just arguing to win the discussion because that is debate, though I believe that arguing and debate together can support a good discussion-the discussion does not have any other option, but sharing-again it has no room for arguing, so I was sure that he would not have answer for my next question as I asked him,
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed as a Butterfly Flying on its Wings - 16
“Wow, you mean the knowledge without the thread of experience can’t give light. Well, I agree and it consumes our paraffin of knowledge giving us the wisdom of light. You seem to say that knowledge alone is like the paraffin. Isn’t it?” I said.
I felt the proud of richness of joy of blend of emotions with the intellect that evolved from the discussion.
“Here you’re; you see now your words are getting the feelings about which we’re talking. Can you make a cup of tea on the burning candle?” He said laughingly.
I felt the proud of richness of joy of blend of emotions with the intellect that evolved from the discussion.
“Here you’re; you see now your words are getting the feelings about which we’re talking. Can you make a cup of tea on the burning candle?” He said laughingly.
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed for Igniting and Burning Our Candle of Wisdom - 15
His saying, while looking at me and my giving the positive response makes the discussion flow smoothly.
“All right; can the candle burn without the thread in it?” He asked.
“No, the candle needs a thread. Wow, it’s a wonderful idea” I replied.
We started to enjoy the discussion. The journey into the candle along with the thread was interesting.
The creative people do not just ignite, the taking of initiative and burn as the candle, their thread that appears as creativity also burns to keep the glow alive.
“All right; can the candle burn without the thread in it?” He asked.
“No, the candle needs a thread. Wow, it’s a wonderful idea” I replied.
We started to enjoy the discussion. The journey into the candle along with the thread was interesting.
The creative people do not just ignite, the taking of initiative and burn as the candle, their thread that appears as creativity also burns to keep the glow alive.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed as a Burning Candle with Warmth and Light - 14
It seemed right that the candle once put on spreads light; however it melts and burns while doing so.
I was not aware about the candle about which he was going to talk when there was enough sunlight.
He looked at me as if I was comparing the candle and the sunlight.
“You know, once you know what’s this melting and burning is as you may assume that you’ve passed the exam of real life, isn’t it,” he said to me.
“Can you tell me what’s this melting and burning is?” I asked.
I was not aware about the candle about which he was going to talk when there was enough sunlight.
He looked at me as if I was comparing the candle and the sunlight.
“You know, once you know what’s this melting and burning is as you may assume that you’ve passed the exam of real life, isn’t it,” he said to me.
“Can you tell me what’s this melting and burning is?” I asked.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed in Darkness of Shadow and Light of Sharing - 13
This kind of socialization with humans was same as enjoying nature. I wondered if the differences in the human nature, opinions, attitudes and other traits were like the plants, trees, flowers, butterflies, birds and it was so as I could feel it in the conversation we have full of joy, smile, laughter and depth of thought that we all share as humans.
The chirping bird broke my silence in thoughts as he said,
The chirping bird broke my silence in thoughts as he said,
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed with Sense of Equality in Absence of Polarity - 12
“Yaw, you’re right, you see we lack the knowledge about the poet’s eye. It’s the concept of opening of the third eye, which the creative people have done and they thus fail to socialize in the same way as the ordinary people do. It’s our fault that we claim to have poet’s eye without opening the third eye, the aesthetic nerve working in our vision of the nature, people and society. We’re illiterate in this matter practically, so we may better understand at least the self-polarization, which is simply as it gives us the sense of equality, which the creative people enjoy, isn’t it,” she said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed about Thoughtless State of Mind in Yoga and Meditation - 11
“What is self-polarization?” She said.
“You see we may focus on the neutral point of the magnet. Our mind is most stable when we’ve magnetic fields of both poles are equally distributed. Thus, it reminds me of why the people, who practice meditation, focus on the center of the forehead just above the eyebrows. They say that it neutralizes the thoughts and one can enjoy the bliss of thoughtlessness, is it right?” I said.
“You see we may focus on the neutral point of the magnet. Our mind is most stable when we’ve magnetic fields of both poles are equally distributed. Thus, it reminds me of why the people, who practice meditation, focus on the center of the forehead just above the eyebrows. They say that it neutralizes the thoughts and one can enjoy the bliss of thoughtlessness, is it right?” I said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed with Intelligence and Creative Intelligence in Insightful Way - 10
“You see the creative intelligence needs the company of emotions. On the other hand, the intelligence needs the company of information, the facts and figures to show the marvel of intellect. We fail to provide company to the creative people as we’re not creative in our social life. We improve intelligence and attract social attention for better living. However, the creative people have great affinity with nature, fellow humans, emotions and thus the creative arts, isn’t it,” she said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed that Seem Bipolar to People Driven by Insensitivity - 9
“Yaw, and that’s the major problem that they find themselves as if having two personalities, which others can find more easily. So, they are referred to the doctors and psychiatrists. They’re basically so intelligent that they know that they react in two ways, but others make them believe that it’s not normal. They accept it and want to change this outlook. However, others wrong because they don’t have any knowledge of their own splitting of magnet,” she said.
“How can you say that others don’t have any knowledge of splitting or bipolar disorders?” I said.
“How can you say that others don’t have any knowledge of splitting or bipolar disorders?” I said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed to Be Captain of the Ship with a Small Compass - 8
“Our intelligence is dominating, so we slowly learn to surrender our creative intelligence and the associated magnetic field of feelings. It causes the suppression of emotions,” she said.
“I believe that our creative intelligence is stronger than our intelligence. Then, how can we surrender to the weaker pole?” I said.
“I believe that our creative intelligence is stronger than our intelligence. Then, how can we surrender to the weaker pole?” I said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed to Discover the Hidden Meaning and Feelings in Words - 7
“All right, you see our mind has two poles. One is the creative intelligence and the other is the intelligence. The one, the creative intelligence supports the emotions and the other absorbs it because the magnetic waves move from one pole to another. You may consider the opposite as equally right. The reason is that the creative intelligence also absorbs the emotions and the intelligence supports the emotions in many cases,” she said.
I could not resist interrupting her and she already noticed it and paused, while looking at my face.
I could not resist interrupting her and she already noticed it and paused, while looking at my face.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed not be a Broken Magnet as Others Find in You - 6
“Do we magnetize our fears?” I asked her.
“Yaw, the negative poles attracts the positive and attraction weakens the other pole. You see the magnet field weakens and appears as if splitting has occurred. So, others treat us as if we’ve two poles,” she said.
“I wonder. How can you say that others treat us as if we’ve two poles? Now you seem to contradict the concept of magnet, doesn’t the magnet have two poles?” I said.
“All right, when we act at the emotional level, while writing a book creatively and someone comes without knocking the door, what does happen?” She said.
“Yaw, the negative poles attracts the positive and attraction weakens the other pole. You see the magnet field weakens and appears as if splitting has occurred. So, others treat us as if we’ve two poles,” she said.
“I wonder. How can you say that others treat us as if we’ve two poles? Now you seem to contradict the concept of magnet, doesn’t the magnet have two poles?” I said.
“All right, when we act at the emotional level, while writing a book creatively and someone comes without knocking the door, what does happen?” She said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed Never to Lose to Fear of Rejection - 5
“Drishta, you know we’ve moods that help us to do all of the works, whether creative or intellectual. The moods aren’t understood nowadays in a way ones feels and expresses. We socialize as if forcing our moods to interact in the known ways. These known ways seem normal to us, but eventually these cause suppression of our emotions, and we split our magnet, isn’t it,” she said.
“I see. However, why do we split it, and who forces us to do so?” I said.
“I see. However, why do we split it, and who forces us to do so?” I said.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed with Direction of Magnet of Moods - 4
While strolling in the garden in the morning next day, Monica and I discussed and felt that he usually recalls the good moments of his life, while he shares with us.
She said that good moments of life are like the catalyst to stabilize the randomness of our carving for our aim, while having many conflicts and contradictions in our life.
“Well, what kind of contradictions do we’ve while achieving aim of our life?” I asked.
She said that good moments of life are like the catalyst to stabilize the randomness of our carving for our aim, while having many conflicts and contradictions in our life.
“Well, what kind of contradictions do we’ve while achieving aim of our life?” I asked.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed with Art of Self-Development as if a Dolphin - 3
Though, it may seem same, the personal development is art of self-development, whereas the personality development is more of social development, the social approval for personal differences.
A creative human may not have good personality socially as it is not one’s need to be creative, and likewise the good personality may not confirm that one is leading towards the emotional and intellectual maturity.
Their conversation changed the flow as all of a sudden my sixth sense put my thought bulb on, and thus I was asking him,
A creative human may not have good personality socially as it is not one’s need to be creative, and likewise the good personality may not confirm that one is leading towards the emotional and intellectual maturity.
Their conversation changed the flow as all of a sudden my sixth sense put my thought bulb on, and thus I was asking him,
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed Personality Sprouting from Personal Development - 2
It was 9.30 o'clock and we enjoyed every moment of our gathering.
It was a good to see so many smiles flying in the room as if butterflies, it was the time to leave.
“Madam, I don’t know how to thank you. I don’t have words. It’s right time for me to leave now. Would you allow me?” He said.
“Have you ever heard flowers speaking, why should we spoil it with words? Of course, it was nice to meet you, after so long. It’s indeed so, we thank you,” Monica said with a smile.
It was a good to see so many smiles flying in the room as if butterflies, it was the time to leave.
“Madam, I don’t know how to thank you. I don’t have words. It’s right time for me to leave now. Would you allow me?” He said.
“Have you ever heard flowers speaking, why should we spoil it with words? Of course, it was nice to meet you, after so long. It’s indeed so, we thank you,” Monica said with a smile.
How to Succeed with Multiple Counseling that Ignites Evergreen and the Winning Spirit for the Highest Aims and Goals of Life Ever Dreamed with Help of Words that Socialize - Mental Health Care - 1
Well, you see the series that we are going to start follows the previous series, and I strongly recommend that kindly take it as useful lessons and tips of real life problems because all that is described in it as real as the expressions in the fictitious form that conveys the real experiences of life. Thanks and one may follow the previous parts at HERE.
Now we move to the present lessons and tips from real life-a collection of Multiple Counseling (I have done PhD in the Multiple Counseling with the name Philselfology-The Alternative Ways for Self-guidance and counseling in the AM pattern-the Alternative Medicines and the Medical World) useful only if one implements, though in the way one wishes as all of it depends on the social and cultural background as well. These are the options and one always need to make a choice when such options are present. Thanks again!
Now we move to the present lessons and tips from real life-a collection of Multiple Counseling (I have done PhD in the Multiple Counseling with the name Philselfology-The Alternative Ways for Self-guidance and counseling in the AM pattern-the Alternative Medicines and the Medical World) useful only if one implements, though in the way one wishes as all of it depends on the social and cultural background as well. These are the options and one always need to make a choice when such options are present. Thanks again!
How to Meet the Hidden Genius in Youth and Teen-Exploring their Great Triumphs and Winning Spirit Needing Just a Touch of Faith and Trust in Critical and Creative Analysis - 25
“All right, I’ll take care of your precious suggestions. Thanks a lot, madam,” he said.
He thanked her with a deep regard. I felt that she was teaching him like a mother. It is her style, the way of compassion in feeling and expression; she never misses any chance, wherever or whenever she can contribute by a suggestion or a correction.
“Well, you see if you really want to thank me be practical and don’t be so introvert that you find yourself alone in the world. All right?” She said.
He thanked her with a deep regard. I felt that she was teaching him like a mother. It is her style, the way of compassion in feeling and expression; she never misses any chance, wherever or whenever she can contribute by a suggestion or a correction.
“Well, you see if you really want to thank me be practical and don’t be so introvert that you find yourself alone in the world. All right?” She said.
How to Meet the Hidden Genius in Youth and Teen-Exploring their Great Triumphs and Winning Spirit Needing Just a Touch of Faith and Trust Not to Feel Why Only They - A Poetic Way - 24
“Oh, yaw. Sometimes, I forget that life is an eternal process of continuity. You think deeply; I accept your idea thankfully,” he replied.
“You see it’s the moon; receiving the light from the everlasting ideas that we share as the humans, isn’t it. All right, here comes your next poem, the name of the poem is, ‘Why’ and it says:
‘Why’
With my most sensitive feelings and emotions
I could search no way to understand
Why only right, just and honest has to
Suffer; yes suffer for no reason,
“You see it’s the moon; receiving the light from the everlasting ideas that we share as the humans, isn’t it. All right, here comes your next poem, the name of the poem is, ‘Why’ and it says:
With my most sensitive feelings and emotions
I could search no way to understand
Why only right, just and honest has to
Suffer; yes suffer for no reason,
How to Meet the Hidden Genius in Youth and Teen-Exploring their Great Triumphs and Winning Spirit Needing Just a Touch of Faith and Trust as the Humble Guiding Stars - 23
“Yaw, you’re right. You see sometimes, I feel that I’m not fully dedicated to duty and discipline. This makes me feel that I’m not humble. I’ll try to improve,” he said.
“Well, keep going, while keeping the hopes as the guiding star, you’ll learn a lot. Your next poem is having name, ‘Life and Me’ and it says:
“Well, keep going, while keeping the hopes as the guiding star, you’ll learn a lot. Your next poem is having name, ‘Life and Me’ and it says:
How to Meet the Hidden Genius in Youth and Teen-Exploring their Great Triumphs and Winning Spirit Needing Just a Touch of Faith and Trust When They Do Not Seem Humble - 22
After my reading the poem, Bhagouauty gave the other poems to Monica and she read all of them. These were saying something similar as she read.
“All right, let’s now read the next poem, it’s named, ‘I’m Not Humble’, now I read it:
‘I’m Not Humble’
Seek it not for not to be humble is
Worse, side of life and indeed
It’s false side of virtue.
May I increase the pride of others?
“All right, let’s now read the next poem, it’s named, ‘I’m Not Humble’, now I read it:
Seek it not for not to be humble is
Worse, side of life and indeed
It’s false side of virtue.
May I increase the pride of others?
How to Meet the Hidden Genius in Youth and Teen-Exploring their Great Triumphs and Winning Spirit Needing Just a Touch of Faith and Trust When They Fly in the Cosmic Sky - 21
“Well, it’s a wonderful poem, but is trying to hide the sky with your thunderous words by inviting the sky into the room. You see only the moons are allowed,” she said.
“Gosh, these moons are like honeybees revolving around the words and rotating around the feelings, the pivots aren’t the moons. You see we can’t afford to use expensive words, these need feelings which cost more than we can afford, isn’t it,” he said to me.
“Well, can you give me any example of such costly word,” I said.
“Gosh, these moons are like honeybees revolving around the words and rotating around the feelings, the pivots aren’t the moons. You see we can’t afford to use expensive words, these need feelings which cost more than we can afford, isn’t it,” he said to me.
“Well, can you give me any example of such costly word,” I said.
How to Meet the Hidden Genius in Youth and Teen-Exploring their Great Triumphs and Winning Spirit Needing Just a Touch of Faith and Trust that Gathering in Like Minded Gives - 20
“Thanks, I’ll read about gathering,” I said.
She gave it to me. I like to bring butterflies into the garden by the fragrance of words that offer comfort to the emotions and feelings.
“Let’s start reading it, it’s named, ‘Gathering’ and it says:
‘Gathering’
I’m here
Are you there?
She gave it to me. I like to bring butterflies into the garden by the fragrance of words that offer comfort to the emotions and feelings.
“Let’s start reading it, it’s named, ‘Gathering’ and it says:
I’m here
Are you there?
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“Yaw, it’s the gift of surprise that we feel that we don’t deserve, yet we receive it. You see the creative arts and our moods make us wise. We’re civilized only if we can utilize knowledge. We may have abstract knowledge of meanings of words. However, if we can’t feel it, it is saying ‘honey’ and trying to feel its taste and just making our tongue feel funny. The fun of taste isn’t as real as we can have in real. I always wonder about our tongue, you see it can’t taste honey by uttering it needs the touch of honey. The warmth of a rich conversation is always very good. I enjoyed it.” I said.
“Yaw, the warmth of words gives this feeling of burning candle, the warmth of wisdom, isn’t it,” he said.
“You see mine is very cold,” Monica said.
“Yaw, the warmth of words gives this feeling of burning candle, the warmth of wisdom, isn’t it,” he said.
“You see mine is very cold,” Monica said.
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“I’m sorry, Bhagouauty," I said immediately.
“It’s all right. It doesn’t matter. What madam is saying seems right and I find that the creative arts like music and dance help to balance this gap between being scientific and artistic as these have touch of omniscience if we comprehend it philosophically, particularly the metaphors present in our knowledge, experiences, feelings and the ideas. That is why it seems that art is a universal asset, isn’t it?” He said.
I took a deep breath, but it was different. I was happy to see that he was back in the situation that popped without my intention for it.
“It’s all right. It doesn’t matter. What madam is saying seems right and I find that the creative arts like music and dance help to balance this gap between being scientific and artistic as these have touch of omniscience if we comprehend it philosophically, particularly the metaphors present in our knowledge, experiences, feelings and the ideas. That is why it seems that art is a universal asset, isn’t it?” He said.
I took a deep breath, but it was different. I was happy to see that he was back in the situation that popped without my intention for it.
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“Yaw, you’re right. Well, Drishta you know; the religions in its true form mean to unite human to human, and thus humans to nature. Do you agree that preaching is to spread the message of particular religion or may be philosophy? But if I say that a hungry person needs food, do you think it’s preaching?” He questioned me about such a big social problem.
“Drishta, why are you labeling human experiences? He’s just talking about the collective wisdom of humanity, which has evolved from human experiences. We’ve to remember that our evolution and age aren’t co-related. Rather, at the time when one harmonizes with humanly wisdom, the process of evolution starts like a candle once put on starts to spread its light. Anyway, we may talk about it some other time. Well! Bhagouauty do you’ve any poem with you?” Monica said.
“Yaw, I’ve some,” he replied.
He gave me a look as if wondering about what I had just said. I regretted knowing that the look might seem forceful, but it results when a child within cries.
The child’s trust in mother is stronger than faith.
“Drishta, why are you labeling human experiences? He’s just talking about the collective wisdom of humanity, which has evolved from human experiences. We’ve to remember that our evolution and age aren’t co-related. Rather, at the time when one harmonizes with humanly wisdom, the process of evolution starts like a candle once put on starts to spread its light. Anyway, we may talk about it some other time. Well! Bhagouauty do you’ve any poem with you?” Monica said.
“Yaw, I’ve some,” he replied.
He gave me a look as if wondering about what I had just said. I regretted knowing that the look might seem forceful, but it results when a child within cries.
The child’s trust in mother is stronger than faith.
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“Yaw, I’ve done PhD in Education from USA, with distinction and I’m proud of it,” I replied.
“Wow, it’s great! Marvelous, you see you might have felt the genuine relation between you and your home. This feeling of oneness has relatedness with what I’ve told you something about oneness with nature and her creation. Don’t you always remember that you’re an educationist? You know that when one talks with the feelings of oneness with anything the one will speak more than those who feel isolated will. Don’t you praise education more than all other subjects?” He asked me.
He seemed a bit arrogant, but I could understand that he was focusing and concentrating on what he was saying.
“Wow, it’s great! Marvelous, you see you might have felt the genuine relation between you and your home. This feeling of oneness has relatedness with what I’ve told you something about oneness with nature and her creation. Don’t you always remember that you’re an educationist? You know that when one talks with the feelings of oneness with anything the one will speak more than those who feel isolated will. Don’t you praise education more than all other subjects?” He asked me.
He seemed a bit arrogant, but I could understand that he was focusing and concentrating on what he was saying.
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“Well, it’s both prayer and thanksgiving. I remember those, who made it possible that we’ve food and those, who prepared it. I also remember those, who are hungry in the world and die without food. Then I thank that vital force whom some people call God and some call it Mother Nature, which control and direct the processes of growth and development of living things while non-living things support it,” he said.
It seemed that he was absent mentally as if having indulged in what he had just said. I looked at Monica. She smiled differently. I could understand it. It was just to convey that he does not need a rocket to leave the place where he is sitting. He can leave anytime to the cosmic peace garden.
It seemed that he was absent mentally as if having indulged in what he had just said. I looked at Monica. She smiled differently. I could understand it. It was just to convey that he does not need a rocket to leave the place where he is sitting. He can leave anytime to the cosmic peace garden.
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I may be a pivot of the moment, but center of attention is not a pivot, rather it is my personal charm that is both pivot and center.
I felt as if my mom was saying something, when I heard Monica’s motherly voice.
I felt as if my mom was saying something, when I heard Monica’s motherly voice.
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For me, it was clear when they both looked at the meals then shared the feelings without saying anything. They just looked at each other as telling that the meals were ready. I was in my usual way of pondering over it.
I thought that illiteracy is not that we cannot read or write, rather it is there when we feel urge to convey everything in words. This literacy mission to observe silence and talk seemed the literacy.
If the words are just tools to please each other, we are poor because words cannot do it. On the other hand if we are silent just because we do not have words to say, we do not lack anything; we are rich.
I thought that illiteracy is not that we cannot read or write, rather it is there when we feel urge to convey everything in words. This literacy mission to observe silence and talk seemed the literacy.
If the words are just tools to please each other, we are poor because words cannot do it. On the other hand if we are silent just because we do not have words to say, we do not lack anything; we are rich.
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He was asking me while busy in both washing dishes. The questions were like honeybees trying to search the honey from the knowledge we were sharing.
I was enjoying these flowers of knowledge. The honeybee had done the work; the butterfly was ready to sit on my words as I replied,
I was enjoying these flowers of knowledge. The honeybee had done the work; the butterfly was ready to sit on my words as I replied,
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“Well, it’s an important point you see... He may ...no, he isn’t psychic in the metaphorical or abstract thinking pattern, the creative way of thinking,” I replied.
“You see here we’re, so, even if you’re not fully agreed, don’t you think that there’s something more which is beyond bookish knowledge?” He said.
“Yes, what is it?” I said.
“You see here we’re, so, even if you’re not fully agreed, don’t you think that there’s something more which is beyond bookish knowledge?” He said.
“Yes, what is it?” I said.
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“Yes, it’s possible but needs more research on how to do so,” I replied.
“All right, now suppose one of the students comes to you and says that John has broken the fish of stone which was put on the fountain as if the fountain was coming out of its mouth. It may appear John is having a psychic problem. Won’t you believe it this way?” He asked.
“All right, now suppose one of the students comes to you and says that John has broken the fish of stone which was put on the fountain as if the fountain was coming out of its mouth. It may appear John is having a psychic problem. Won’t you believe it this way?” He asked.
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While washing the dishes, I asked him to understand about the oneness,
“Can you tell me please; what do you get from the the feelings of oneness?”
He looked at me as if I should ask this question to myself. I felt what he wanted to say. It was a humanly expression of the way he wanted to feel it that it was home for him not just a building where one visits.
The humanly feelings to share others personally seem to have not only the joy of what one is but also what one feels as one’s very own.
It was the way to say that he wanted to share; where we have our longing, belonging, relatedness and feelings of our own, the possessions that we like.
He could feel that I knew what I was asking; yet, for humanly humbleness he lifted the curtain of his visions about the garden of humanness through outspoken words,
“Well, would you ask a question when you know the answer?” He asked.
“Never, but you see I do understand what you want to say”, I said.
“Well, don’t you enjoy the peace which comes with union and oneness like husband and wife, mother and child, brother and sister and so on,” he asked.
“Yaw, you’re right, but sometimes we forget that oneness gives us stability of mind which results in peace,” I replied.
“Isn’t it a human right to enjoy peace without disturbing others while being with them?” He asked
“Of course, it’s,” I replied.
“You see you’re an educationist and know that when we put a question to the students they recall all that they’ve learned; isn’t it?
So, when we ask deep questions like you asked why I enjoy the feelings of oneness, do you think the answer can be given without my deep reflection about my experiences of oneness with nature in any form?” He said.
“Yaw, no doubt, I do agree,” I replied.
“OK, do you agree that transfer of training is applicable to all of our experiences,” he asked me.
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“Can you tell me please; what do you get from the the feelings of oneness?”
He looked at me as if I should ask this question to myself. I felt what he wanted to say. It was a humanly expression of the way he wanted to feel it that it was home for him not just a building where one visits.
The humanly feelings to share others personally seem to have not only the joy of what one is but also what one feels as one’s very own.
It was the way to say that he wanted to share; where we have our longing, belonging, relatedness and feelings of our own, the possessions that we like.
He could feel that I knew what I was asking; yet, for humanly humbleness he lifted the curtain of his visions about the garden of humanness through outspoken words,
“Well, would you ask a question when you know the answer?” He asked.
“Never, but you see I do understand what you want to say”, I said.
“Well, don’t you enjoy the peace which comes with union and oneness like husband and wife, mother and child, brother and sister and so on,” he asked.
“Yaw, you’re right, but sometimes we forget that oneness gives us stability of mind which results in peace,” I replied.
“Isn’t it a human right to enjoy peace without disturbing others while being with them?” He asked
“Of course, it’s,” I replied.
“You see you’re an educationist and know that when we put a question to the students they recall all that they’ve learned; isn’t it?
So, when we ask deep questions like you asked why I enjoy the feelings of oneness, do you think the answer can be given without my deep reflection about my experiences of oneness with nature in any form?” He said.
“Yaw, no doubt, I do agree,” I replied.
“OK, do you agree that transfer of training is applicable to all of our experiences,” he asked me.
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After this, he was comfortable, and then he looked the books and magazines. My pondering turned into a wonder, as I suddenly heard my name,
“Drishta!” he said.
“Wait a minute; I’m coming,” I replied.
When I rushed and reached there, he asked me as if he was in some wonder,
“Do you believe in isolation or in oneness?”
“I believe in oneness, but why are you asking me; you see I can’t digest it. Anyway, it’s an art, isn’t it,” I replied.
“Yes, oneness is an art of learning and living,” he said.
“Please, let me wash the dishes with you for the sake of feeling part of this home and your family” he requested.
I did not wish it, but I could not resist. I knew it was the process of his personalization of thoughts and feelings, as he wanted it as a natural part of his life.
However, it appeared a kind of obsession, the feeling or impulse that one cannot control.
I did not say anything because I wanted to learn about compassion as in my opinion the obsession was part of passion for such creative people. I looked at his smiling face waiting for my reply.
“All right come with me,” I said
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“Drishta!” he said.
“Wait a minute; I’m coming,” I replied.
When I rushed and reached there, he asked me as if he was in some wonder,
“Do you believe in isolation or in oneness?”
“I believe in oneness, but why are you asking me; you see I can’t digest it. Anyway, it’s an art, isn’t it,” I replied.
“Yes, oneness is an art of learning and living,” he said.
“Please, let me wash the dishes with you for the sake of feeling part of this home and your family” he requested.
I did not wish it, but I could not resist. I knew it was the process of his personalization of thoughts and feelings, as he wanted it as a natural part of his life.
However, it appeared a kind of obsession, the feeling or impulse that one cannot control.
I did not say anything because I wanted to learn about compassion as in my opinion the obsession was part of passion for such creative people. I looked at his smiling face waiting for my reply.
“All right come with me,” I said
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It seemed an art of making of our personal life enriched with feelings that the civilized people want to have just by self-felt feelings as humans.
I felt that it was the selection of what one could like to have and share while choosing from the crowd of ideas, thoughts, emotions and feelings. It was the thing so precious that it could be for VIP’s only.
The personal life would then become the room for the VIP, our self that always shares the treasure with body, mind, heart and the soul. I had to think and accept it as if the voice of conscious having conversations with our self as if we were sitting in the garden of our inner self.
The personal life, where only few people can access, seems the garden, where one lives as a gardener.
I had this joy when I ponder over many issues related to my personal life. It simply seems self-acceptance that never needs our making claims because it is just a personalized feeling without words.
I realized that he was making oneness with the room just to feel it as his personal.
It was as if the new butterflies and birds would have entered in his own peace garden within while he seemed to allow these to enter and have placed to sit and sing.
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I felt that it was the selection of what one could like to have and share while choosing from the crowd of ideas, thoughts, emotions and feelings. It was the thing so precious that it could be for VIP’s only.
The personal life would then become the room for the VIP, our self that always shares the treasure with body, mind, heart and the soul. I had to think and accept it as if the voice of conscious having conversations with our self as if we were sitting in the garden of our inner self.
The personal life, where only few people can access, seems the garden, where one lives as a gardener.
I had this joy when I ponder over many issues related to my personal life. It simply seems self-acceptance that never needs our making claims because it is just a personalized feeling without words.
I realized that he was making oneness with the room just to feel it as his personal.
It was as if the new butterflies and birds would have entered in his own peace garden within while he seemed to allow these to enter and have placed to sit and sing.
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The meaning was so significant that I could read it on his face with wide and bright opened eyes. It was as if he was expressing his feelings of self-witness.
I liked it to notice that sometimes we express as if we are giving self-witness that we know, understand and comprehend what we say. I felt it and the words were flying with wings of the feelings as I said,
“Wow, it’s amazing I’ll always remember it. The self-witnessing, the way on which I walk doesn’t speak, yet leads. Now time to lead, excuse me please, you see I’ve to wash the dishes, please let me leave for sometime.”
“Well, on this road we all are companions, isn’t it? Well, Drishta, I wish to wash dishes with you, would you allow me?” He said.
“No. Gosh, you see it doesn’t look nice because you’re our guest. Please be seated,” I said.
“OK, as you wish,” he replied.
He sat there and I saw that he was looking around, while sitting there, the pictures, portraits and the setting of the room along with decoration of the room. This decoration was adding beauty to the garden that he seemed to keep in his mind where entry for few new thoughts, ideas and feelings were waiting, as if butterflies, for his allowing enter into his garden of thoughts and emotions.
It was a good experience to know that some people do not allow new and fresh arrivals without their own test of passing by self-felt feelings as he said the feelings of observer and thus learning to be an observer.
I could notice that his self-observer was the in-charge of his garden checking and marking the card of self-felt feelings for permission to enter and have the joy of being personal and part of his personal peace garden of life.
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I liked it to notice that sometimes we express as if we are giving self-witness that we know, understand and comprehend what we say. I felt it and the words were flying with wings of the feelings as I said,
“Wow, it’s amazing I’ll always remember it. The self-witnessing, the way on which I walk doesn’t speak, yet leads. Now time to lead, excuse me please, you see I’ve to wash the dishes, please let me leave for sometime.”
“Well, on this road we all are companions, isn’t it? Well, Drishta, I wish to wash dishes with you, would you allow me?” He said.
“No. Gosh, you see it doesn’t look nice because you’re our guest. Please be seated,” I said.
“OK, as you wish,” he replied.
He sat there and I saw that he was looking around, while sitting there, the pictures, portraits and the setting of the room along with decoration of the room. This decoration was adding beauty to the garden that he seemed to keep in his mind where entry for few new thoughts, ideas and feelings were waiting, as if butterflies, for his allowing enter into his garden of thoughts and emotions.
It was a good experience to know that some people do not allow new and fresh arrivals without their own test of passing by self-felt feelings as he said the feelings of observer and thus learning to be an observer.
I could notice that his self-observer was the in-charge of his garden checking and marking the card of self-felt feelings for permission to enter and have the joy of being personal and part of his personal peace garden of life.
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She smiled and left. While sitting with more comfort, he looked at me. I could see in his eyes that he did not lack anything.
I had just flashing thought that the kitchen is a garden of food, and working like a honeybee is to extract the honey from it, the nutrients. You see it is just a wonder of making the meals from the foods.
A welcoming smile offering thanksgiving to the hands that cook the food was on my face. He was enjoying it. I looked at him.
“May I know your good name, please,” he asked.
“Well, my name is ready in my mind and while landing on my tongue, kindly receive it, my name is Drishta,” I replied.
“Received with thanks, it’s a beautiful name meaning witness,” he said it with a smile.
“Wow, is it really, I didn’t know its meaning before. My grandfather gave me this nickname” I replied.
“Wow, your grandfather seems wiser for choosing the names, isn’t it,” he said.
“Yaw, he is a great scholar. Can you tell me please, is it simply witness like in the court?” I asked.
“No, not exactly, though very close to what really it means; you see it’s witnessing like an observer, the self-witness” he replied.
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I had just flashing thought that the kitchen is a garden of food, and working like a honeybee is to extract the honey from it, the nutrients. You see it is just a wonder of making the meals from the foods.
A welcoming smile offering thanksgiving to the hands that cook the food was on my face. He was enjoying it. I looked at him.
“May I know your good name, please,” he asked.
“Well, my name is ready in my mind and while landing on my tongue, kindly receive it, my name is Drishta,” I replied.
“Received with thanks, it’s a beautiful name meaning witness,” he said it with a smile.
“Wow, is it really, I didn’t know its meaning before. My grandfather gave me this nickname” I replied.
“Wow, your grandfather seems wiser for choosing the names, isn’t it,” he said.
“Yaw, he is a great scholar. Can you tell me please, is it simply witness like in the court?” I asked.
“No, not exactly, though very close to what really it means; you see it’s witnessing like an observer, the self-witness” he replied.
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I felt that the fair dealings are from the heart; our mind just helps to use it properly. It was funny to imagine that mind cannot produce emotion, the intellect does not understand the touch and taste of it.
The mind has the parameter to check the level of emotions as if rating it with sensitivity, the pathway towards emotional maturity.
It was clear to me that it also a different experience to feel the flying butterfly and the honeybee. Sometimes, the honeybee seems to enjoy the flower, while on the other times it seems to extract the honey from it.
The butterfly is different, it enjoys as if adding its beauty to the flowers, for me it was the beautifying the sight of flowers with butterflies sitting and wandering around it.
I had the answer that it was not only the secret of rich smile but also finding the key to the treasure of humanly feelings; that could enriches the child within us to enjoy the beauty in the whole like in the garden.
The shared deep smile turned into words which seemed twinkling stars in the sky of smile while making the faces look like the moon,
“Wow, it’s great and wonderful. Bhagouauty, it’s nice to see you again,” she said with a smile.
“Thanks, madam, you see I’m happy to be here, it’s like my homing coming otherwise visiting home is just a formality, isn’t it,” he said.
“Gosh, we honor your coming home. It’s good to hear and see you smiling again.” She replied.
“Thanks, I always smile when I see those going on the road that conveys its legendary message saying miles to go before we sleep,” he said while smiling.
“You’re right, just walk…I mean talk to my brother, while I finish some pending works in the kitchen. You see if I do many works the pending may be bending of my back. I don’t want to give it a trouble, you know, it is my best tip; take care of your back and there’s nothing that you may ever lack, isn’t it. Have a nice time. OK! I’m leaving to the garden of food to honor the meals” she said.
We had a rich laughter, so healthy that I felt strength of humanly bonds.
“OK, thanks, your tip is like a trip for better health.” he said.
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The mind has the parameter to check the level of emotions as if rating it with sensitivity, the pathway towards emotional maturity.
It was clear to me that it also a different experience to feel the flying butterfly and the honeybee. Sometimes, the honeybee seems to enjoy the flower, while on the other times it seems to extract the honey from it.
The butterfly is different, it enjoys as if adding its beauty to the flowers, for me it was the beautifying the sight of flowers with butterflies sitting and wandering around it.
I had the answer that it was not only the secret of rich smile but also finding the key to the treasure of humanly feelings; that could enriches the child within us to enjoy the beauty in the whole like in the garden.
The shared deep smile turned into words which seemed twinkling stars in the sky of smile while making the faces look like the moon,
“Wow, it’s great and wonderful. Bhagouauty, it’s nice to see you again,” she said with a smile.
“Thanks, madam, you see I’m happy to be here, it’s like my homing coming otherwise visiting home is just a formality, isn’t it,” he said.
“Gosh, we honor your coming home. It’s good to hear and see you smiling again.” She replied.
“Thanks, I always smile when I see those going on the road that conveys its legendary message saying miles to go before we sleep,” he said while smiling.
“You’re right, just walk…I mean talk to my brother, while I finish some pending works in the kitchen. You see if I do many works the pending may be bending of my back. I don’t want to give it a trouble, you know, it is my best tip; take care of your back and there’s nothing that you may ever lack, isn’t it. Have a nice time. OK! I’m leaving to the garden of food to honor the meals” she said.
We had a rich laughter, so healthy that I felt strength of humanly bonds.
“OK, thanks, your tip is like a trip for better health.” he said.
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“Well, I don’t play with the words I just want to enjoy the feelings that these carry for pouring water into our eyes so that we may have tears of joy; isn’t it the beauty of words?” He said and smiled.
“Yaw, with poet’s eye only. Please come and have a seat, while I wash the dishes and Monica prepares the food. Monica…! Bhagouauty has arrived.” I told her.
While he followed my voice by moving his eyes towards the kitchen, I could see the sensitivity follow the words and feelings as if nature has the peace garden of words and feelings.
Many butterflies entered to touch these flowers of sensitivity; when she came to drawing room and while approaching us, she welcomed Bhagouauty. I wondered on the smiles that they shared.
I felt as if they could see the garden in its full blossom. Thinking of few things in the garden and the garden in its full was the difference that I could notice. I realized that the acceptance of one as the one is the full beauty of the smile that natural comes while doing so.
I did not have words for it knowing that imprisonment by words could bring the prison for the sensitive feelings. This was my first and the last experience when I met him for the first time.
It was not fear; instead, it was my learning to care for those, who care.
It had nothing to do with give and take method that we can apply to solve the riddles of emotions seeking our mind to stop interfering in the matters of dealings that are always fair in the water of joy that tears cannot hide in compassion.
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“Yaw, with poet’s eye only. Please come and have a seat, while I wash the dishes and Monica prepares the food. Monica…! Bhagouauty has arrived.” I told her.
While he followed my voice by moving his eyes towards the kitchen, I could see the sensitivity follow the words and feelings as if nature has the peace garden of words and feelings.
Many butterflies entered to touch these flowers of sensitivity; when she came to drawing room and while approaching us, she welcomed Bhagouauty. I wondered on the smiles that they shared.
I felt as if they could see the garden in its full blossom. Thinking of few things in the garden and the garden in its full was the difference that I could notice. I realized that the acceptance of one as the one is the full beauty of the smile that natural comes while doing so.
I did not have words for it knowing that imprisonment by words could bring the prison for the sensitive feelings. This was my first and the last experience when I met him for the first time.
It was not fear; instead, it was my learning to care for those, who care.
It had nothing to do with give and take method that we can apply to solve the riddles of emotions seeking our mind to stop interfering in the matters of dealings that are always fair in the water of joy that tears cannot hide in compassion.
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We looked at each other and the words blinking on tongue found the tune of harmony and left my tongue to reach where it could have sense, meaning and feeling as I knocked at his ears with it,
“Good Evening and welcome to our nest where we forget the world to rest. I’m pleased to see you again. Well, we just forget to tell you when to come, sorry for that,” I said.
“Good Evening, please don’t make me feel like a stranger would feel, it doesn’t matter. Rather, I’m sorry if I’m early or late,” he said.
“How can you be late? I wonder if you could come bit early, perhaps in the evening. In any case, it’s all right, you are welcome anytime. Let us go inside to find out whether the sun rises early or sets late.” I said with a little laughter.
“Well, it depends on the clouds not on the Sun. If there are clouds, it may be either early or late. You see it just depends; you know. Your house is like a home,” he said.
“Hey; what do you mean it looks like a home, it’s our home?” I was surprised.
“Well, it looks like my home. I hope you’d allow me to have this feeling,” he said.
“I’m sorry; I can’t allow you until you allow me feel it as our home. You always play with words,” I said.
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“Good Evening and welcome to our nest where we forget the world to rest. I’m pleased to see you again. Well, we just forget to tell you when to come, sorry for that,” I said.
“Good Evening, please don’t make me feel like a stranger would feel, it doesn’t matter. Rather, I’m sorry if I’m early or late,” he said.
“How can you be late? I wonder if you could come bit early, perhaps in the evening. In any case, it’s all right, you are welcome anytime. Let us go inside to find out whether the sun rises early or sets late.” I said with a little laughter.
“Well, it depends on the clouds not on the Sun. If there are clouds, it may be either early or late. You see it just depends; you know. Your house is like a home,” he said.
“Hey; what do you mean it looks like a home, it’s our home?” I was surprised.
“Well, it looks like my home. I hope you’d allow me to have this feeling,” he said.
“I’m sorry; I can’t allow you until you allow me feel it as our home. You always play with words,” I said.
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He was looking at my face enjoying the vision in my eyes and I smiled knowing that we both could feel the simile of thought and emotion.
He was shaking hand with me as if the pigeon arrives back from the sky and shakes its head just leaving a small grass leaf that the Sun has made dry for its nest.
I welcomed him knowing that it was now time for pigeons to share, so were we just entering into the nest while the words started to chirp on our tongues.
My tongue felt as if missing the tune so only the words that come without effort would bring my body and mind in tune with him to keep the vision present in our feelings.
We left the cosmic sight outside and carried its beauty inside while the words showered the moonlight of snow that was glowing on our faces.
I could feel the snow melting into twinkling words.
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He was shaking hand with me as if the pigeon arrives back from the sky and shakes its head just leaving a small grass leaf that the Sun has made dry for its nest.
I welcomed him knowing that it was now time for pigeons to share, so were we just entering into the nest while the words started to chirp on our tongues.
My tongue felt as if missing the tune so only the words that come without effort would bring my body and mind in tune with him to keep the vision present in our feelings.
We left the cosmic sight outside and carried its beauty inside while the words showered the moonlight of snow that was glowing on our faces.
I could feel the snow melting into twinkling words.
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The spell of the beautiful sky was beyond my imaginations. It was simply the feelings and the joy of wonder.
The sky was full of cosmic beauty and I went to enjoy the glory of galaxy as if it was a joy where I spread my vision through the eyes, which I could not know when I opened the door and started to enjoy it.
I cannot say if I was not aware about his standing outside, because his presence made this sight, the blend of source and offspring.
The presence of good ideas and imaginations has offspring that touches all flowers of the cosmic peace garden like a butterfly.
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The sky was full of cosmic beauty and I went to enjoy the glory of galaxy as if it was a joy where I spread my vision through the eyes, which I could not know when I opened the door and started to enjoy it.
I cannot say if I was not aware about his standing outside, because his presence made this sight, the blend of source and offspring.
The presence of good ideas and imaginations has offspring that touches all flowers of the cosmic peace garden like a butterfly.
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We happened to forget to tell Bhagouauty when he might come to our home. Without having his phone or mobile contact, we had no idea how to convey it, but to wait was like an engage tone as if dialing him to reach at the time that pleases him and us. We did not have to wait for it for long.
He reached when my sister was preparing food and I was washing the dishes.
He ranged the bell and I just looked from the window it was clear like sky that garden of stars and moons was over his head while the twinkling stars seemed like butterflies and moonlight falling as if snowfall making the night similar to the garden that was coming with its beautiful sight. The garden of cosmic sky looks like the Peace Garden of Mother Nature, which was similar to the Eden Garden.
While enjoying this vision of my thoughts, I was pondering if I could enjoy the same while standing in front of our own house.
It was so beautiful outside to see the moonlight falling on the snow making each bit of it twinkling like a star, that the spell and the stance of it was on my eyes and mind.
This showering of stars moved my eyes, as if moving towards the sky without my effort.
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He reached when my sister was preparing food and I was washing the dishes.
He ranged the bell and I just looked from the window it was clear like sky that garden of stars and moons was over his head while the twinkling stars seemed like butterflies and moonlight falling as if snowfall making the night similar to the garden that was coming with its beautiful sight. The garden of cosmic sky looks like the Peace Garden of Mother Nature, which was similar to the Eden Garden.
While enjoying this vision of my thoughts, I was pondering if I could enjoy the same while standing in front of our own house.
It was so beautiful outside to see the moonlight falling on the snow making each bit of it twinkling like a star, that the spell and the stance of it was on my eyes and mind.
This showering of stars moved my eyes, as if moving towards the sky without my effort.
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“Well, it seems to me that you misunderstood it. Yoga stands for our harmony with nature and makes us naturalist. To be spiritual means that our body, mind, heart and the soul are spiritually, I mean all together in harmony with nature for which he seeks help. This help isn’t easy to give and receive. I wish I could explain it. You see it’s seeking detachment for the sake of duty. It’s, thus the maturity of emotions,” she said.
I did not reply, but it made me think and ponder over it. We reached home, but I was not satisfied because I have a different concept of emotional maturity. Therefore, I wanted to know more about him.
I had read many books on spiritualism, so I could comprehend Monica and Bhagouauty but I could not conclude why he was getting medical treatment while at the same time he said that he was doing yoga or perhaps meditation.
The best way, I thought, was better to ask him. I believe that the art of questioning is the most difficult part of learning; however we can learn it without effort if we know that we always need to ask as a child.
The child asks without any hesitation and we as grown start to lose the sense and need of curiosity. I always want to feel the words that I hear and read. Therefore, I left the idea to mature until dinner.
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I did not reply, but it made me think and ponder over it. We reached home, but I was not satisfied because I have a different concept of emotional maturity. Therefore, I wanted to know more about him.
I had read many books on spiritualism, so I could comprehend Monica and Bhagouauty but I could not conclude why he was getting medical treatment while at the same time he said that he was doing yoga or perhaps meditation.
The best way, I thought, was better to ask him. I believe that the art of questioning is the most difficult part of learning; however we can learn it without effort if we know that we always need to ask as a child.
The child asks without any hesitation and we as grown start to lose the sense and need of curiosity. I always want to feel the words that I hear and read. Therefore, I left the idea to mature until dinner.
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We left the place while going towards the gate of the peace garden opening the new and fresh page of our daily works. While we were leaving, he was looking at us as if we were leaving him forever. I could understand it.
Elene then, it seemed an extreme of sensitivity. My knowledge and intellect could not stop me uttering words;
“Well, I feel, I mean, anyway, he seems to be a difficult person to understand,” I said to Monica.
“Not at all, he’s like that because of his thinking about those issues which are related with nature and her creation. He doesn’t bother much about what seems important to everyday life at the cost of ignoring long-term issues of life. I know him more than you do. His simplicity sometimes gives an impression of as complexity of his personality and behavior. It’s so from his school days,” she replied.
“Well, it may be, but why does he bother about such complicated issues?” I was curious.
“Well, you see it’s the part and parcel of one’s personal life. You always think about your field. Why do you think about education?” She asked.
“It’s because I’m educationist, isn’t it,” I said happily and confidently.
“Yaw, and can’t you feel it that similarly, he’s a naturalist and humanitarian, so he can’t give up pondering and thinking about nature and humanity,” she said.
“I’m sorry, Monica. I thought that he was a pretender when he was talking of yoga and development of body, mind and spirit. Excuse me, please; don’t you think that he’s trying to convey that he’s a yogic or spiritual person?” I said.
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Elene then, it seemed an extreme of sensitivity. My knowledge and intellect could not stop me uttering words;
“Well, I feel, I mean, anyway, he seems to be a difficult person to understand,” I said to Monica.
“Not at all, he’s like that because of his thinking about those issues which are related with nature and her creation. He doesn’t bother much about what seems important to everyday life at the cost of ignoring long-term issues of life. I know him more than you do. His simplicity sometimes gives an impression of as complexity of his personality and behavior. It’s so from his school days,” she replied.
“Well, it may be, but why does he bother about such complicated issues?” I was curious.
“Well, you see it’s the part and parcel of one’s personal life. You always think about your field. Why do you think about education?” She asked.
“It’s because I’m educationist, isn’t it,” I said happily and confidently.
“Yaw, and can’t you feel it that similarly, he’s a naturalist and humanitarian, so he can’t give up pondering and thinking about nature and humanity,” she said.
“I’m sorry, Monica. I thought that he was a pretender when he was talking of yoga and development of body, mind and spirit. Excuse me, please; don’t you think that he’s trying to convey that he’s a yogic or spiritual person?” I said.
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“Well, you see you know what seems to me…as if a child within you isn’t able to comprehend the difference between mistake and innocence. However, never allow the child within die, as it’s our creativity. I hope you will always remember and keep it up this rich humanly feelings you know, you’re having a great wealth, which if you share, it’ll increase like watering the trees increases the fruits. Will you keep it up, please?” She said as if requesting confidently.
I could see hope in her eyes that was higher than sympathy. It was the feeling of compassion; not the sympathy, in the words
“Yaw, I’ll always remember it. Thanks a lot,” he replied.
“You’re always welcome and thanks a lot, Bhagouauty for sharing your beautiful poems,” she said.
“You’re most welcome. Gosh, you know, madam, I just feel as if I’m born again, I always want to feel like a child and think like a wise.” He was very pleased, and what he received from this compassion was that he regained his natural smile.
“You see you’ve it; your smiles say it all. I’m happy to see it. Well, we’ve the camel waiting for us, the works of today. OK, I wish well for your future and we should be leaving now,” she said.
“Thanks, it was nice to see you after so long,” he said.
“Same is here, thanks,” she said.
“OK, bye, see you later,” we both said with a shared smile.
“OK, bye, and thanks,” he bowed his head.
"You're welcome,"
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I could see hope in her eyes that was higher than sympathy. It was the feeling of compassion; not the sympathy, in the words
“Yaw, I’ll always remember it. Thanks a lot,” he replied.
“You’re always welcome and thanks a lot, Bhagouauty for sharing your beautiful poems,” she said.
“You’re most welcome. Gosh, you know, madam, I just feel as if I’m born again, I always want to feel like a child and think like a wise.” He was very pleased, and what he received from this compassion was that he regained his natural smile.
“You see you’ve it; your smiles say it all. I’m happy to see it. Well, we’ve the camel waiting for us, the works of today. OK, I wish well for your future and we should be leaving now,” she said.
“Thanks, it was nice to see you after so long,” he said.
“Same is here, thanks,” she said.
“OK, bye, see you later,” we both said with a shared smile.
“OK, bye, and thanks,” he bowed his head.
"You're welcome,"
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The wonder of natural wisdom; turning salty water fresh as the purification of thoughts, falling on the ideals of life like drops of rain. Monica turned off my taking the shower of thoughts in the desert.
“My dear brother, come back. I see. Have some time for us, OK. Well, this is the last poem. Its name is, ‘Mistaken Mistake’ and it says:
‘Mistaken Mistake’
With right intention and
Using good thoughts and emotions
Sometimes, not always,
We make a mistake
Crack! Crash, Sad, Bad, Alas, Bore,
Are like the thunders of light breaking,
Yet, bear it and learn to
Bear if for then and only then
We know it that
Life isn’t only joy, but
It’s a lesson as well,
Yes, a lesson of understanding,
Moreover, it’s an understanding
To make wise
Be wise and seek not
To make mistake and
If somehow, somewhere, unknowingly,
And unwillingly or by mistake
We may make a mistake
Then share the tears with
The new lesson with old wisdom and
With bold wisdom,
Yes! With old and bold wisdom
That like others and like everyone else
We, aren’t different from others and
Bhagouauty shares his being with all creatures.
This is good; at least, you accept that life is like that. Forget your errors, mistakes, weak points and other such hopeless words. Always be hopeful and just keep going; you will laugh at it one day, but don’t let the child in you be silent or sad because you’re to be always young at and in your heart. I know that you understand it that the trials and the errors of life don’t project errors as the mistakes, I see it’s good that you agree, I never go hopeless because we’re lucky having the feelings of a child within seeking wisdom of life, isn’t it,” she said.
“Well, I fully agree. However, madam, you know, the child within doesn’t understand the language that’s without feelings, isn’t it,” he said.
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“My dear brother, come back. I see. Have some time for us, OK. Well, this is the last poem. Its name is, ‘Mistaken Mistake’ and it says:
With right intention and
Using good thoughts and emotions
Sometimes, not always,
We make a mistake
Crack! Crash, Sad, Bad, Alas, Bore,
Are like the thunders of light breaking,
Yet, bear it and learn to
Bear if for then and only then
We know it that
Life isn’t only joy, but
It’s a lesson as well,
Yes, a lesson of understanding,
Moreover, it’s an understanding
To make wise
Be wise and seek not
To make mistake and
If somehow, somewhere, unknowingly,
And unwillingly or by mistake
We may make a mistake
Then share the tears with
The new lesson with old wisdom and
With bold wisdom,
Yes! With old and bold wisdom
That like others and like everyone else
We, aren’t different from others and
Bhagouauty shares his being with all creatures.
This is good; at least, you accept that life is like that. Forget your errors, mistakes, weak points and other such hopeless words. Always be hopeful and just keep going; you will laugh at it one day, but don’t let the child in you be silent or sad because you’re to be always young at and in your heart. I know that you understand it that the trials and the errors of life don’t project errors as the mistakes, I see it’s good that you agree, I never go hopeless because we’re lucky having the feelings of a child within seeking wisdom of life, isn’t it,” she said.
“Well, I fully agree. However, madam, you know, the child within doesn’t understand the language that’s without feelings, isn’t it,” he said.
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“You’re welcome. Let’s move to your next poem. The name of the poem is, ‘A Heart’ and it says:
‘A Heart’
A poor heart
With humble feelings and
With tender emotions and
With touching desires and
With sensitive intentions and
With hesitation and
With gentle shyness
Seeks
To be what it is honestly
Not what others think and not what
Others are trying to make it,
Really goes here and there and
Seeking with a cup of sensitivity,
Peace and harmony
Moreover, weeps shedding the tears of helplessness.
To be what it’s gracefully
Not what others expect of it
And not what others try to get from it, but
My poor heart
Longs and grieves Bhagouauty
To confess that
It never seek to hurt anyone
Moreover, it accepts with joy
Even the slightly and bit friendly
Emotions towards it for it’s
A humanly heart.
Come on, don’t be so sensitive, I mean going so deep that you may drown,” she said.
“Well, my heart can sink; I just escape to the desert of thoughts, where I’ve no danger of drowning. I’ve thoughts like a camel,” he replied.
We all laughed and he was back to his spirit. The thought of the camel gave me new idea that we may call it the ship of the desert. It was a greatness of the spirit to feel desert as a sea, where the camel is a ship.
We may be weak in the flesh, but the wisdom gives such a power to the thoughts and the emotions that oceans seems just a reservoir for watering the peace gardens with rain.
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A poor heart
With humble feelings and
With tender emotions and
With touching desires and
With sensitive intentions and
With hesitation and
With gentle shyness
Seeks
To be what it is honestly
Not what others think and not what
Others are trying to make it,
Really goes here and there and
Seeking with a cup of sensitivity,
Peace and harmony
Moreover, weeps shedding the tears of helplessness.
To be what it’s gracefully
Not what others expect of it
And not what others try to get from it, but
My poor heart
Longs and grieves Bhagouauty
To confess that
It never seek to hurt anyone
Moreover, it accepts with joy
Even the slightly and bit friendly
Emotions towards it for it’s
A humanly heart.
Come on, don’t be so sensitive, I mean going so deep that you may drown,” she said.
“Well, my heart can sink; I just escape to the desert of thoughts, where I’ve no danger of drowning. I’ve thoughts like a camel,” he replied.
We all laughed and he was back to his spirit. The thought of the camel gave me new idea that we may call it the ship of the desert. It was a greatness of the spirit to feel desert as a sea, where the camel is a ship.
We may be weak in the flesh, but the wisdom gives such a power to the thoughts and the emotions that oceans seems just a reservoir for watering the peace gardens with rain.
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“Well, you see it’s just dumping of sensitivity by the insensitive circumstances. I’m sorry; I shouldn’t share such poems, madam. But I’m sure that you can understand that it’s just part of life,” he said with head down as if regretting
“Why do you show as if you’re regretting or feeling guilty? In any case, you’re right. It’s getting common nowadays. We need to struggle for our emotional security. We can’t live with insensitivity, isn’t it? Let me see, here comes your next poem also seems similar. Its named is ‘Struggle and Struggle’ and it says:
‘Struggle and Struggle’
The months and moments of struggle and
Days in the weeks of working hard is
Glorify human life.
Sorry! I feel to say that
Seeking and searching some stability
In life isn’t easy to get.
When the time is helpless in
The hands of others and
When help is available but
Can’t reach you and
When you’re willing but
Can’t do anything then
It is shame of tears and also
The time of
The fame of sorrow
Struggle and struggle not because
You’re worthless but because
You’re seeking to be a human of
Dutifulness and sincerity,
The qualities seem easy to talk about but
It’s difficult to keep it up.
Shining with coldness of negative side
Of existence of us on the planet
You mayn’t decide
Whether it’s worthwhile to live
Alternatively, it’s better to bear the shadows of darkness.
Take it easy Bhagouauty
It’s good for hard hearts,
Though, a knife to the sensitive children!
Never worry be happy
Perhaps, it’s hope to the wise
Moreover, delight to the heart,
You’re not losing the battle.
It is the battle of humanness
A call for human wisdom for
Guide to the human ignorance.
Keep it up, Bhagouauty. You see I’m sure that you’ll win it,” she said.
“Thanks a lot,” he smiled.
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“Why do you show as if you’re regretting or feeling guilty? In any case, you’re right. It’s getting common nowadays. We need to struggle for our emotional security. We can’t live with insensitivity, isn’t it? Let me see, here comes your next poem also seems similar. Its named is ‘Struggle and Struggle’ and it says:
The months and moments of struggle and
Days in the weeks of working hard is
Glorify human life.
Sorry! I feel to say that
Seeking and searching some stability
In life isn’t easy to get.
When the time is helpless in
The hands of others and
When help is available but
Can’t reach you and
When you’re willing but
Can’t do anything then
It is shame of tears and also
The time of
The fame of sorrow
Struggle and struggle not because
You’re worthless but because
You’re seeking to be a human of
Dutifulness and sincerity,
The qualities seem easy to talk about but
It’s difficult to keep it up.
Shining with coldness of negative side
Of existence of us on the planet
You mayn’t decide
Whether it’s worthwhile to live
Alternatively, it’s better to bear the shadows of darkness.
Take it easy Bhagouauty
It’s good for hard hearts,
Though, a knife to the sensitive children!
Never worry be happy
Perhaps, it’s hope to the wise
Moreover, delight to the heart,
You’re not losing the battle.
It is the battle of humanness
A call for human wisdom for
Guide to the human ignorance.
“Thanks a lot,” he smiled.
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He looked at me. I was not ready for such gazing, and I felt the presence of sorrow in his heart and it was very clear in his next poem. I looked into his eyes and expressed that I can understand it.
However, He did not smile as if nobody understands his feelings. I was wrong in a way as I realized that it was because the silent sharing was glowing face that’s more than a smile.
I had the new experience that the compassionate look is deeper than the smile, the sympathetic comments, and even the words of comfort. I felt the warmth of comfort.
“All right, your attention, please, the next poem is named, ‘Living in a Grave’ and it says:
‘Living in a Grave’
When you receive unhappiness
From this world while
Giving affection and unselfish love,
Moreover, when you pay
For what you haven’t done
Moreover, for what you don’t deserve,
Moreover, when you face trouble
Just because you wanted to be
A human of honest word and deed,
When you receive rejection
Just because you’re different
From the other people and
When others accuse you of
Something, which you never imagine,
Moreover, when others ignore you
For you’re not typical,
Then you’ll know that you’re
Living in a grave; Bhagouauty.
Well, it finishes here, but what do you mean by living in a grave. I can understand it, but I want to hear from you, would you like to tell me, please,” she said.
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However, He did not smile as if nobody understands his feelings. I was wrong in a way as I realized that it was because the silent sharing was glowing face that’s more than a smile.
I had the new experience that the compassionate look is deeper than the smile, the sympathetic comments, and even the words of comfort. I felt the warmth of comfort.
“All right, your attention, please, the next poem is named, ‘Living in a Grave’ and it says:
When you receive unhappiness
From this world while
Giving affection and unselfish love,
Moreover, when you pay
For what you haven’t done
Moreover, for what you don’t deserve,
Moreover, when you face trouble
Just because you wanted to be
A human of honest word and deed,
When you receive rejection
Just because you’re different
From the other people and
When others accuse you of
Something, which you never imagine,
Moreover, when others ignore you
For you’re not typical,
Then you’ll know that you’re
Living in a grave; Bhagouauty.
Well, it finishes here, but what do you mean by living in a grave. I can understand it, but I want to hear from you, would you like to tell me, please,” she said.
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“Hey, come on; don’t worry; it’ll come to an end. Let’s see what you want to say in your next poem named, ‘Living’, it says:
‘Living’
Being alive is valuable
Just as an animal in a cage
Yet an animal is
Valuable for it doesn’t
Know its value to the extent
Which is estimated in the
Cages of humans
O My Dear Friend,
Come out of your cage
Moreover, know it well
That living and knowing its
Value is the crown
Of your existence
Don’t sit in the cage of
Ignorance and imagination Bhagouauty
For your being alive is
Valuable only when your
Living is known to you and
Know that your are being alive
Is nothing but your the living.
Wow, it’s thoughtful, isn’t it,” she said while looking at me.
“Wow, it’s bringing the idea of the difference between ignorance and knowing the value of living, it’s a good idea, isn’t it,” I said.
It is natural to make a comment. I was going to have a new experience on it, the art of making a comment. The comments need the feelings that may convey that listener can share it.
The art of communication fails even if we understand everything, but ignore the thirst of words; the feelings shared silently with the words.
It was there, the new touch as if a new pinch. Something that was most unexpected for me, though all of it was known, but the way it came was the most mysterious and unknown.
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‘Living’
Being alive is valuable
Just as an animal in a cage
Yet an animal is
Valuable for it doesn’t
Know its value to the extent
Which is estimated in the
Cages of humans
O My Dear Friend,
Come out of your cage
Moreover, know it well
That living and knowing its
Value is the crown
Of your existence
Don’t sit in the cage of
Ignorance and imagination Bhagouauty
For your being alive is
Valuable only when your
Living is known to you and
Know that your are being alive
Is nothing but your the living.
Wow, it’s thoughtful, isn’t it,” she said while looking at me.
“Wow, it’s bringing the idea of the difference between ignorance and knowing the value of living, it’s a good idea, isn’t it,” I said.
It is natural to make a comment. I was going to have a new experience on it, the art of making a comment. The comments need the feelings that may convey that listener can share it.
The art of communication fails even if we understand everything, but ignore the thirst of words; the feelings shared silently with the words.
It was there, the new touch as if a new pinch. Something that was most unexpected for me, though all of it was known, but the way it came was the most mysterious and unknown.
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“Well, it seems about the strolling in the peace garden as its name suggests. It’s named, ‘Wandering’ and it says:
‘Wandering’
Sometimes I wander
Well, you see it’s not that
I’m wandering
For something special
But to see the fruit
Of wandering,
In my wandering
I see great humans
And unknown personalities,
Moreover, I see
The love of country
And way of city
For wandering
Is discovering
The meaning of
Expression of life
Moreover, it’s wandering, which brings
Bhagouauty back to peace
It seems that your spirit is seeking for your wandering to an end. Isn’t it?” She said with a surprise.
“Yaw. I really want it,” he said.
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‘Wandering’
Sometimes I wander
Well, you see it’s not that
I’m wandering
For something special
But to see the fruit
Of wandering,
In my wandering
I see great humans
And unknown personalities,
Moreover, I see
The love of country
And way of city
For wandering
Is discovering
The meaning of
Expression of life
Moreover, it’s wandering, which brings
Bhagouauty back to peace
It seems that your spirit is seeking for your wandering to an end. Isn’t it?” She said with a surprise.
“Yaw. I really want it,” he said.
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“I’m sorry,” he said and was silent again.
“Why do you feel sorry? Please, don’t be so submissive. Time is a great healer, though introvert person doesn’t need this kind of healing. You’re sad for the circumstances not for the personal life. Don’t worry, in any case, I will read your other poems. Well, can you tell me if you always write sad poems?” She wanted to know.
“Not really, I write mixed poems. I wrote these when I wasn’t in happy mood,” he explained.
“All right, Mr. Moody. Keep it simple; rich feelings aren’t easy to digest, isn’t it. OK, I’m going to read your next poem. Its name is ‘Indecisiveness’ and it says:
‘Indecisiveness’
When the words
Aren’t seen
In deeds
And when deeds
Can’t be expressed
In words,
When love
Isn’t felt
In affection
And when affection
Can’t be experienced
In love,
When day
Isn’t seen
In light
In addition, when light
Can’t be seen
In the day,
When truth
Is rare
And when life
Can’t be grown
In truth,
When desires are plenty
In one’s heart.
A sad wonder, when heart
Can’t be shaken
In desires,
When spirit
Is weeping
In the flesh
And the flesh
Can’t be rejoiced
In the spirit,
When happiness
Isn’t
In you
And When you
Can’t be seen
In happiness,
When meanings
Aren’t clear
In relationships
And when relationships
Can’t be expressed,
In meanings
Then you
Are surely
In trouble
Then trouble
Can’t be helped
In you,
Then you need to pray
Moreover, restart your journey of life
For you’re past of the humanity
Then an effort
Is needed
In life
And life
Can’t be unseen
In efforts,
Then glory of truth
Is essential
In you
And then you
Can’t be hidden
In glory of truth,
Then “yourself”
Is back
In you Bhagouauty and
Then you
Can’t remain a stranger
To your self; as you’re
Though at times
You’re indecisive.
Wow, this is good one, isn’t it,” she said.
“Yaw. It’s different and interesting. I like it. Which one is the next one?” I said.
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“Why do you feel sorry? Please, don’t be so submissive. Time is a great healer, though introvert person doesn’t need this kind of healing. You’re sad for the circumstances not for the personal life. Don’t worry, in any case, I will read your other poems. Well, can you tell me if you always write sad poems?” She wanted to know.
“Not really, I write mixed poems. I wrote these when I wasn’t in happy mood,” he explained.
“All right, Mr. Moody. Keep it simple; rich feelings aren’t easy to digest, isn’t it. OK, I’m going to read your next poem. Its name is ‘Indecisiveness’ and it says:
‘Indecisiveness’
When the words
Aren’t seen
In deeds
And when deeds
Can’t be expressed
In words,
When love
Isn’t felt
In affection
And when affection
Can’t be experienced
In love,
When day
Isn’t seen
In light
In addition, when light
Can’t be seen
In the day,
When truth
Is rare
And when life
Can’t be grown
In truth,
When desires are plenty
In one’s heart.
A sad wonder, when heart
Can’t be shaken
In desires,
When spirit
Is weeping
In the flesh
And the flesh
Can’t be rejoiced
In the spirit,
When happiness
Isn’t
In you
And When you
Can’t be seen
In happiness,
When meanings
Aren’t clear
In relationships
And when relationships
Can’t be expressed,
In meanings
Then you
Are surely
In trouble
Then trouble
Can’t be helped
In you,
Then you need to pray
Moreover, restart your journey of life
For you’re past of the humanity
Then an effort
Is needed
In life
And life
Can’t be unseen
In efforts,
Then glory of truth
Is essential
In you
And then you
Can’t be hidden
In glory of truth,
Then “yourself”
Is back
In you Bhagouauty and
Then you
Can’t remain a stranger
To your self; as you’re
Though at times
You’re indecisive.
Wow, this is good one, isn’t it,” she said.
“Yaw. It’s different and interesting. I like it. Which one is the next one?” I said.
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“What’s the next one,” I was eager to listen.
“It’s named, ‘Sorrow’ and it says:
‘Sorrow’
When words weep
Moreover, heart cries
And emotions
Overflow in the
Unknown direction that’s
In the river
Of compassion,
With great flow
Of tears,
And my soul
Grieves for
The peace of mind
Moreover, I go
With myself
To find
The meaning of life
Then I prove
Bhagouauty is in sorrow.
It’s sad, Bhagouauty! What does make you write gloomy poems? Isn’t it a sad expression? You see I’m not pleased with it,” she said.
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“It’s named, ‘Sorrow’ and it says:
‘Sorrow’
When words weep
Moreover, heart cries
And emotions
Overflow in the
Unknown direction that’s
In the river
Of compassion,
With great flow
Of tears,
And my soul
Grieves for
The peace of mind
Moreover, I go
With myself
To find
The meaning of life
Then I prove
Bhagouauty is in sorrow.
It’s sad, Bhagouauty! What does make you write gloomy poems? Isn’t it a sad expression? You see I’m not pleased with it,” she said.
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“Sure, why not? Let us sit and read some of your poems,” she said.
“Well, it’d be a great pleasure for me, please take these poems to read,” he says.
“Thanks, Bhagouauty, these are written beautifully. You see your handwriting always has been good, isn’t it,” she said.
We sat on the beautiful grass and she started to read his poems. It was a different face from that I saw as if distracted in the prison of presence.
I looked at him he was having flying smiles as if a flower spreading fragrance and colorful butterflies surrounding it, while trying to find place to sit on the desired place.
I felt as if my blinking eyes were also moving around his face like a butterfly.
It is an amazing that eyes feel to have the honey from the flower as the joy of seeing the friendly face smiling is both the butterflies and honeybees working together.
I enjoy smiling faces, but this smile was different, I could not go into the depth of this smile as I was enjoying it first for the time. I thought; it was better to remain where we were. The peace garden was very peaceful.
I looked at her face; Monica knows that poet’s eyes are never blank; so she started to read the secrets behind this smile. I was reading everything from her face.
“Thanks, I start to read, the first one is ‘Thinking’ and it says:
‘Thinking’
I’m thinking
What should I think?
It seems
That thinking nothing
Is valuable thinking?
But sometimes
My thinking
Just reminds
Me that my, yes, my
Life is passing
Moreover, I’m
Like evaporating water
And this thinking
Seems the root of
My thinking
That Bhagouauty is
Safe in the hands
Those care humanly.
It’s very sensitive and touchy, Bhagouauty”, she said to him.
He remained silent.
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“Well, it’d be a great pleasure for me, please take these poems to read,” he says.
“Thanks, Bhagouauty, these are written beautifully. You see your handwriting always has been good, isn’t it,” she said.
We sat on the beautiful grass and she started to read his poems. It was a different face from that I saw as if distracted in the prison of presence.
I looked at him he was having flying smiles as if a flower spreading fragrance and colorful butterflies surrounding it, while trying to find place to sit on the desired place.
I felt as if my blinking eyes were also moving around his face like a butterfly.
It is an amazing that eyes feel to have the honey from the flower as the joy of seeing the friendly face smiling is both the butterflies and honeybees working together.
I enjoy smiling faces, but this smile was different, I could not go into the depth of this smile as I was enjoying it first for the time. I thought; it was better to remain where we were. The peace garden was very peaceful.
I looked at her face; Monica knows that poet’s eyes are never blank; so she started to read the secrets behind this smile. I was reading everything from her face.
“Thanks, I start to read, the first one is ‘Thinking’ and it says:
‘Thinking’
I’m thinking
What should I think?
It seems
That thinking nothing
Is valuable thinking?
But sometimes
My thinking
Just reminds
Me that my, yes, my
Life is passing
Moreover, I’m
Like evaporating water
And this thinking
Seems the root of
My thinking
That Bhagouauty is
Safe in the hands
Those care humanly.
It’s very sensitive and touchy, Bhagouauty”, she said to him.
He remained silent.
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She is wise while dealing with the feelings. She reads, while feeling it; that is why she speaks while reading his face.
“You’re like Santa Claus trying to fulfill my desires, all right I make a wish to sit and talk for sometime, though not more than minutes,” he said.
The hope for a positive reply was hiding the joy. He was looking at her face as if she was going to make a big declaration. Finally, after just a fraction of second the peace garden was blossoming with her words saying,
“Let’s sit together for sometime, please. We’ll go, only when you’ll allow,” she said.
She was the one who could know the depth of his feelings that were hiding behind the clouds of smile. She was not able to ignore her feelings of compassion that could view that the feelings might be hidden in the smile, which is silent like a cloud that does not thunder. The blowing air of words took the clouds away and the smile as clear like the sky, on his face again.
“Wow, madam, you see time can’t change you. You can change the direction and the course of time as it goes towards the simplicity. I thank you very much,” he said.
It was a gift for him, which he needed. I was pleased because his face turned into smile that had the joy of the child within. He could see with poet’s eyes.
It was as if the lost smile was regaining the fruitfulness of warmth; it had and wanted to share. The wonder was just by fulfilling a small wish.
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“You’re like Santa Claus trying to fulfill my desires, all right I make a wish to sit and talk for sometime, though not more than minutes,” he said.
The hope for a positive reply was hiding the joy. He was looking at her face as if she was going to make a big declaration. Finally, after just a fraction of second the peace garden was blossoming with her words saying,
“Let’s sit together for sometime, please. We’ll go, only when you’ll allow,” she said.
She was the one who could know the depth of his feelings that were hiding behind the clouds of smile. She was not able to ignore her feelings of compassion that could view that the feelings might be hidden in the smile, which is silent like a cloud that does not thunder. The blowing air of words took the clouds away and the smile as clear like the sky, on his face again.
“Wow, madam, you see time can’t change you. You can change the direction and the course of time as it goes towards the simplicity. I thank you very much,” he said.
It was a gift for him, which he needed. I was pleased because his face turned into smile that had the joy of the child within. He could see with poet’s eyes.
It was as if the lost smile was regaining the fruitfulness of warmth; it had and wanted to share. The wonder was just by fulfilling a small wish.
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“OK, pay when you’ve,” Monica laughed with a silent smile.
“Yaw, I’ll. I’m thankful to you,” he said with a thankful smile.
“Bhagouauty, would you like to have dinner with us?” I said.
I requested him to encourage him for breaking such introvert feelings of shyness. I know that the feelings of reverence have a strong obligation that the feeling of shyness hide as the mother hides the sorrow and the pains from her child.
“Yes, madam, Thank you very much. What’s your address?” He asked.
“It’s 23, Peace Garden Avenue, Peace Garden, just 3 streets behind my clinic,” she replied.
I looked at my watch. It was 7.30 am. I enjoyed looking at it, the needle of seconds was moving like butterfly, that of minutes seemed like slowly zooming flowers and the hourly was like a tree, which would move only if the butterfly moves around the zooming flowers for some thousands of times.
“Your watch is beautiful you know the needles of seconds seem the trees moving fast while we are traveling in the train and that of hour’s moves with the moving train, very slow. Anyhow, it moves while making us to win the race with the concept of slow and steady enjoys the richness of our life. Does it say that we should leave now?” He said smilingly.
“Yaw, it says that we should be leaving now; you see it’s the half past seven and we’re getting late,” I said.
“All right, thank you very much. It’s nice to see you after so long and for your inviting me.” He said politely.
“You seem bit sad and please don’t sadden by your silent face. Just say whatever you wish,” she asked him.
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“Yaw, I’ll. I’m thankful to you,” he said with a thankful smile.
“Bhagouauty, would you like to have dinner with us?” I said.
I requested him to encourage him for breaking such introvert feelings of shyness. I know that the feelings of reverence have a strong obligation that the feeling of shyness hide as the mother hides the sorrow and the pains from her child.
“Yes, madam, Thank you very much. What’s your address?” He asked.
“It’s 23, Peace Garden Avenue, Peace Garden, just 3 streets behind my clinic,” she replied.
I looked at my watch. It was 7.30 am. I enjoyed looking at it, the needle of seconds was moving like butterfly, that of minutes seemed like slowly zooming flowers and the hourly was like a tree, which would move only if the butterfly moves around the zooming flowers for some thousands of times.
“Your watch is beautiful you know the needles of seconds seem the trees moving fast while we are traveling in the train and that of hour’s moves with the moving train, very slow. Anyhow, it moves while making us to win the race with the concept of slow and steady enjoys the richness of our life. Does it say that we should leave now?” He said smilingly.
“Yaw, it says that we should be leaving now; you see it’s the half past seven and we’re getting late,” I said.
“All right, thank you very much. It’s nice to see you after so long and for your inviting me.” He said politely.
“You seem bit sad and please don’t sadden by your silent face. Just say whatever you wish,” she asked him.
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“Madam, I need your help to give up so many medicines prescribed by the psychiatrist,” he said it sadly.
“Psychiatrist, you see it isn’t a pleasant surprise. Why do you need a psychiatrist? What is wrong with you?” She said.
I noticed that she could not control her agony.
“Madam, personally I don’t see anything wrong, but I lack knowledge about improving mind or brain for stable and peaceful life while living and interacting with society and nature. I find that there are certain phases of functioning of brain, which, I feel, I can’t fully comprehend and thus get very sensitive and nervous about it. It seems that I lack knowledge about neuromuscular system. However, the psychiatrist describes it as over sensitivity or human reactivity. You’re also a yoga teacher and know that I used to do yoga for better health of body and mind. So this continuity and my hunger for improvement for physical, mental and spiritual health may have resulted in neurosis,” he said.
“Neurosis, come on, it’s as normal as natural, isn’t it. Well, why don’t you come to my clinic?” She asked.
“Well, I’m afraid I mayn’t have money to pay your fee,” he replied.
“Gosh! Don’t be silly. We earn to see that money works for us not that we work for money only. Isn’t it that you believe? Well, it’s funnier than a joke of the day. I’ll not charge you but you’ll have to let me read your poetry. Would you allow me, please?” Monica said to him.
“Yes, but….” he said.
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“Psychiatrist, you see it isn’t a pleasant surprise. Why do you need a psychiatrist? What is wrong with you?” She said.
I noticed that she could not control her agony.
“Madam, personally I don’t see anything wrong, but I lack knowledge about improving mind or brain for stable and peaceful life while living and interacting with society and nature. I find that there are certain phases of functioning of brain, which, I feel, I can’t fully comprehend and thus get very sensitive and nervous about it. It seems that I lack knowledge about neuromuscular system. However, the psychiatrist describes it as over sensitivity or human reactivity. You’re also a yoga teacher and know that I used to do yoga for better health of body and mind. So this continuity and my hunger for improvement for physical, mental and spiritual health may have resulted in neurosis,” he said.
“Neurosis, come on, it’s as normal as natural, isn’t it. Well, why don’t you come to my clinic?” She asked.
“Well, I’m afraid I mayn’t have money to pay your fee,” he replied.
“Gosh! Don’t be silly. We earn to see that money works for us not that we work for money only. Isn’t it that you believe? Well, it’s funnier than a joke of the day. I’ll not charge you but you’ll have to let me read your poetry. Would you allow me, please?” Monica said to him.
“Yes, but….” he said.
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“I agree. The counseling is such a globalization of human experiences that I feel that when a child wants to quench the thirst of curiosity and creativity at that moment it seems that the counseling is the need. Simply imparting information to the curiosity seems to keep gap between teacher and student. The counseling opens a way to understand what the child is actually willing to know, once it is satisfied the teaching becomes a self-study in which the student can participate as a learner. Isn’t it?” He said thoughtfully.
“Yaw, you’re right, the counseling quenches the thirst of curiosity and thus creativity such that a student or learner may walk on the path of learning by self and you know I feel it is the aim and objective of education. What do you think about it?” She said to me.
“It seems that we’ve so many things to share that we may sit or rather arrange a meeting for it. I agree that quenching of thirst of curiosity is same as grasping the concepts and ideas which is the aim of the education. I’d suggest that he might find it a pleasant experience to come to our clinic.” I said while looking at him.
“What is the name of your clinic and where is it?” He asked with a pleasant face.
“Its name is Peace of Mind Clinic. It’s just over there behind the Peace Garden,” she replied.
By now, I lost my hesitation. Therefore, I wanted to know why he took medicines. However, he himself answered it.
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“Yaw, you’re right, the counseling quenches the thirst of curiosity and thus creativity such that a student or learner may walk on the path of learning by self and you know I feel it is the aim and objective of education. What do you think about it?” She said to me.
“It seems that we’ve so many things to share that we may sit or rather arrange a meeting for it. I agree that quenching of thirst of curiosity is same as grasping the concepts and ideas which is the aim of the education. I’d suggest that he might find it a pleasant experience to come to our clinic.” I said while looking at him.
“What is the name of your clinic and where is it?” He asked with a pleasant face.
“Its name is Peace of Mind Clinic. It’s just over there behind the Peace Garden,” she replied.
By now, I lost my hesitation. Therefore, I wanted to know why he took medicines. However, he himself answered it.
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“Are you here?” Monica asked laughingly.
“O…I’m here; I was just lost, though you’ve never said to get lost. You see I was lost even you did say so, ha… ha…ha,” he said.
We laughed as if children. I could see the butterflies and birds chirping in our laughter as it was like recalling the days of snowfall, which spreads its beauty on the garden in winter.
I could also feel the feelings of relatedness and togetherness, and it was as if wearing winter cloths and enjoying the garden, with the poet’ eyes.
The snowfall and warmth of winter cloths seemed the burning fire within the feelings that make forget that at some places on the other side of the place there might be heat waves of summer. However, the warmth of shared feelings seem to keep it same within. I always thank the word “within” as it keeps the warmth of feelings within its own shelter of meaning.
When I was thinking of a butterfly trying to sit on a flower he poured the words of welcoming for the reverence he keeps for his teacher.
“Madam, where are you teaching now?” He said.
“You see I left my teaching in the school five years ago. I’m working as a psychotherapist now and running my own clinic and my brother is in charge of the Guidance and Counseling Section of my clinic,” she replied.
“Wow, it’s great! I always thought you were more a counselor than just being a teacher,” he said.
“Well, teaching is like a food and counseling is like a tonic if you feel, though I enjoy both. I preferred counseling just because it’s more personal than I’d contribute in the class of 20 students. I’d like to have your opinion; you understand it. Isn’t it?” She said.
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“O…I’m here; I was just lost, though you’ve never said to get lost. You see I was lost even you did say so, ha… ha…ha,” he said.
We laughed as if children. I could see the butterflies and birds chirping in our laughter as it was like recalling the days of snowfall, which spreads its beauty on the garden in winter.
I could also feel the feelings of relatedness and togetherness, and it was as if wearing winter cloths and enjoying the garden, with the poet’ eyes.
The snowfall and warmth of winter cloths seemed the burning fire within the feelings that make forget that at some places on the other side of the place there might be heat waves of summer. However, the warmth of shared feelings seem to keep it same within. I always thank the word “within” as it keeps the warmth of feelings within its own shelter of meaning.
When I was thinking of a butterfly trying to sit on a flower he poured the words of welcoming for the reverence he keeps for his teacher.
“Madam, where are you teaching now?” He said.
“You see I left my teaching in the school five years ago. I’m working as a psychotherapist now and running my own clinic and my brother is in charge of the Guidance and Counseling Section of my clinic,” she replied.
“Wow, it’s great! I always thought you were more a counselor than just being a teacher,” he said.
“Well, teaching is like a food and counseling is like a tonic if you feel, though I enjoy both. I preferred counseling just because it’s more personal than I’d contribute in the class of 20 students. I’d like to have your opinion; you understand it. Isn’t it?” She said.
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“Wow, you remember, madam, you’ve been my teacher, when I was in the eighth class in the Surrey High School. Do you recognize me, madam?” He said.
“O My God! So it’s you.” she almost jumped with joy.
“Yes, Madam, your brother doesn’t recognize me but I know that I used to meet him in the school when he used to pick you up,” he said with a deep smile.
“Oh, yes, it has been so long. I totally forgot. I’m sorry.” I said.
“It doesn’t matter. Even I couldn’t recognize you at the first instance. It has been a period of over seven years,” he said.
He seemed lost into the memories of the past. Monica and I were happy to see that the tree that bears fruits cannot leave the smile of a giving comfort to others. Even the shadow that any tree can have is the joy that gives warmth of shelter.
The shadow smiles and welcomes the stranger as if it wants to hug.
I always enjoy the hug from the shadow of the trees, though I hug the trunks of trees as well. Now, she was more than a shadow of the tree as the birds were chirping on the same tree.
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“O My God! So it’s you.” she almost jumped with joy.
“Yes, Madam, your brother doesn’t recognize me but I know that I used to meet him in the school when he used to pick you up,” he said with a deep smile.
“Oh, yes, it has been so long. I totally forgot. I’m sorry.” I said.
“It doesn’t matter. Even I couldn’t recognize you at the first instance. It has been a period of over seven years,” he said.
He seemed lost into the memories of the past. Monica and I were happy to see that the tree that bears fruits cannot leave the smile of a giving comfort to others. Even the shadow that any tree can have is the joy that gives warmth of shelter.
The shadow smiles and welcomes the stranger as if it wants to hug.
I always enjoy the hug from the shadow of the trees, though I hug the trunks of trees as well. Now, she was more than a shadow of the tree as the birds were chirping on the same tree.
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We sat together silently for some moments. I was suddenly shocked when I saw him taking some tablets and capsules. When he was looking at the medicines he was sad, but after taking it, he was relaxed as if gone through a tough time with success.
However, it seemed that he had the feelings of running in wrong lane in the track of his life and creativity.
It was vivid as he again had a deep breath of relief. It seemed the breath of both the relief and regret. Therefore, I wanted to ask him about it. Before I opened my mouth, I looked at my sister, she signaled me to keep silent. Therefore, I did not ask him about it.
“May I know your name, please?” I requested.
“You may call me by my pen name Bhagouauty. Is it all right?” He said.
“Yaw, it’s all right. Thanks,” I said.
“Would you like to meet my sister?” I asked.
“Yaw, I’ll,” he said.
“Monica! Please come here,” I called for her.
“I’m coming.” She replies while approaching us.
“Well, Monica, meet Mr. Bhagouauty,” I said.
“Hello! Bhagouauty, How are you?” She asked.
“Well, I’m fine, thanks,” he said.
He smiled and looked at her and bowed his head with great reverence. I could feel that the feelings of reverence are so powerful that the agony and anguish seem a like a fruit falling down from the tree without ripping.
The tree and the fruits stay as a civilized expression of bearing the pains and the sorrow of life.
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However, it seemed that he had the feelings of running in wrong lane in the track of his life and creativity.
It was vivid as he again had a deep breath of relief. It seemed the breath of both the relief and regret. Therefore, I wanted to ask him about it. Before I opened my mouth, I looked at my sister, she signaled me to keep silent. Therefore, I did not ask him about it.
“May I know your name, please?” I requested.
“You may call me by my pen name Bhagouauty. Is it all right?” He said.
“Yaw, it’s all right. Thanks,” I said.
“Would you like to meet my sister?” I asked.
“Yaw, I’ll,” he said.
“Monica! Please come here,” I called for her.
“I’m coming.” She replies while approaching us.
“Well, Monica, meet Mr. Bhagouauty,” I said.
“Hello! Bhagouauty, How are you?” She asked.
“Well, I’m fine, thanks,” he said.
He smiled and looked at her and bowed his head with great reverence. I could feel that the feelings of reverence are so powerful that the agony and anguish seem a like a fruit falling down from the tree without ripping.
The tree and the fruits stay as a civilized expression of bearing the pains and the sorrow of life.
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“Yaw, I like poems. I’m learning to write poems, as you’ve just said enjoying without forcing our self to enjoy, the poet’s eye making no effort. It’s as an art of joy to write poems, isn’t it,” I said.
“Would you like to read a poem, though I’d not force you to enjoy it?” He asked me while looking deep into my eyes as if looking for the self-felt reply.
“I don’t feel forced when I enjoy let me have what you enjoy without forcing your self. Would you like to do so, please?” I said.
I realized that he was absorbed in his poetical thoughts and imaginations.
“All right, just have this poem to read,” he said.
It was like an asset to add richness to my feelings as I could see him satisfied as if my reply fulfilled one of his great desires. He gives me a poem named, “Rose,” and I started to read it. It was very beautiful it said:
‘Rose’
On the bank of the river
Near the city
And outside the buildings
But behind the old trees
I see a rose.
I don’t want to pluck it
Because it attracts me
When it’s in the garden
Near the bank of a river
Flowing with twinkling water,
The rose reminds
Me of the rainbow and
It seems to me
That this rose was
Once standing on the rainbow
Because, I saw its color
In the rainbow and
I feel that
The rainbow has manifested her self
On the earth
In the flowers and trees
Moreover, when I see birds
In different colors I feel
They’re telling about
The stories of rainbow and
I find the virtue of nature
In the rainbow
It feels like a human being
Yes, Rose is a child of beauty of Rainbow.
“It’s a beautiful expression, I can feel it. Thanks for allowing me to read it,” I said.
“I thank you for reading it and compliment with a feeling,” he replied.
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“Would you like to read a poem, though I’d not force you to enjoy it?” He asked me while looking deep into my eyes as if looking for the self-felt reply.
“I don’t feel forced when I enjoy let me have what you enjoy without forcing your self. Would you like to do so, please?” I said.
I realized that he was absorbed in his poetical thoughts and imaginations.
“All right, just have this poem to read,” he said.
It was like an asset to add richness to my feelings as I could see him satisfied as if my reply fulfilled one of his great desires. He gives me a poem named, “Rose,” and I started to read it. It was very beautiful it said:
‘Rose’
On the bank of the river
Near the city
And outside the buildings
But behind the old trees
I see a rose.
I don’t want to pluck it
Because it attracts me
When it’s in the garden
Near the bank of a river
Flowing with twinkling water,
The rose reminds
Me of the rainbow and
It seems to me
That this rose was
Once standing on the rainbow
Because, I saw its color
In the rainbow and
I feel that
The rainbow has manifested her self
On the earth
In the flowers and trees
Moreover, when I see birds
In different colors I feel
They’re telling about
The stories of rainbow and
I find the virtue of nature
In the rainbow
It feels like a human being
Yes, Rose is a child of beauty of Rainbow.
“It’s a beautiful expression, I can feel it. Thanks for allowing me to read it,” I said.
“I thank you for reading it and compliment with a feeling,” he replied.
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I was contented to see that he was very pleased to know this. His smile opened the first page, the title of his personality. It was the entitled humanly expression that does not words. I realized that it was the first and the last thing that one can communicate as a stranger. While I was thinking, he asked me politely,
“Can you look at the rose, please?”
“Yes, of course,” I looked at the rose.
“Can you see it with poet’s eye, please?” He said.
“Well, can you tell me, please; what do you mean by poet’s eye?” I said.
“You see the poet’s eye looks at everything like others do, however it feels differently,” he replied.
“How does it feel differently?” I wanted to know.
“To enjoy the joy, you see it’s different to have moments of joy and having feelings of joy. Looking at the rose is moment of joy and if you can admire and enjoy this moment as your personal feeling, it’s poet’s eye. In other words, how you can enjoy naturally, the joy without effort. You know some people say that the rose is just a flower. For a poet, it isn’t simply a flower. It’s the beauty of the plant as any humanly gift or quality is, and its smell is like sharing same as the sharing of humanly gifts. You see we can always enjoy admiring the common beauty between the plants and the humans, isn’t it,” he said.
“Well, I don’t have words to admire it that way, though I can understand what you’re saying and want to convey. I like your feelings and the charm of this poetically feelings,” I said.
“You know that the poems simply make us forget the words and enjoy the meanings with feelings enriched with metaphor present in the nature. The metaphor is the beauty of words that we may enjoy in poems like in the music and songs. I want to ask if you like poems?” He asked with a smiling face metaphorically.
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“Can you look at the rose, please?”
“Yes, of course,” I looked at the rose.
“Can you see it with poet’s eye, please?” He said.
“Well, can you tell me, please; what do you mean by poet’s eye?” I said.
“You see the poet’s eye looks at everything like others do, however it feels differently,” he replied.
“How does it feel differently?” I wanted to know.
“To enjoy the joy, you see it’s different to have moments of joy and having feelings of joy. Looking at the rose is moment of joy and if you can admire and enjoy this moment as your personal feeling, it’s poet’s eye. In other words, how you can enjoy naturally, the joy without effort. You know some people say that the rose is just a flower. For a poet, it isn’t simply a flower. It’s the beauty of the plant as any humanly gift or quality is, and its smell is like sharing same as the sharing of humanly gifts. You see we can always enjoy admiring the common beauty between the plants and the humans, isn’t it,” he said.
“Well, I don’t have words to admire it that way, though I can understand what you’re saying and want to convey. I like your feelings and the charm of this poetically feelings,” I said.
“You know that the poems simply make us forget the words and enjoy the meanings with feelings enriched with metaphor present in the nature. The metaphor is the beauty of words that we may enjoy in poems like in the music and songs. I want to ask if you like poems?” He asked with a smiling face metaphorically.
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She silently gave her permission and stood there, while I approached to talk to him. This time I was having the feelings that terminate the distance that is present between two humans; I met him like a friend, not as a stranger.
“Excuse me please. May I talk to you?” I requested.
“Yes, of course; why not, please go ahead,” he replied.
“Can I see your beautiful sketches?” I said.
“Sure, why not? I’d be pleased to show it to you,” he said with a smiling face.
He gave me all of his sketches. All of these were sensitively artistic and what it represents was like a message.
“Wow, I really appreciate your sketches representing your feelings and the message in beautiful colors,” I said while looking at it and appreciating his sketches.
“Thank you very much,” he said with a smile.
“Are you an artist?” I asked.
This question was simple but I could not know why he took it seriously and started to ponder over it to feel whether he was really an artist or not. Before he answers me, I saw an expression of disturbance, the emotional turmoil on his face expressing, as I felt that he had a deep desire to be an artist. He replied while looking into my eyes,
“No, I’m not an artist. It’s just my hobby,”
I realized that he was a human of very tender emotions and thoughts. Therefore, I dropped the idea of questioning him because it seemed to me that he mightn’t like such questions as the pebble of question mark always disturbs the water of wonder, the exclamation that we have.
“Would you let me know about your hobbies?” He asked.
“Yes why not! I like poetry, gardening, reading good books and of course enjoying nature and her creation,” I replied.
“I really feel great that you and I’ve the same hobbies. Nature and its creations give us the gifts that become our hobbies,” he said with a deep smile of intimacy.
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“Excuse me please. May I talk to you?” I requested.
“Yes, of course; why not, please go ahead,” he replied.
“Can I see your beautiful sketches?” I said.
“Sure, why not? I’d be pleased to show it to you,” he said with a smiling face.
He gave me all of his sketches. All of these were sensitively artistic and what it represents was like a message.
“Wow, I really appreciate your sketches representing your feelings and the message in beautiful colors,” I said while looking at it and appreciating his sketches.
“Thank you very much,” he said with a smile.
“Are you an artist?” I asked.
This question was simple but I could not know why he took it seriously and started to ponder over it to feel whether he was really an artist or not. Before he answers me, I saw an expression of disturbance, the emotional turmoil on his face expressing, as I felt that he had a deep desire to be an artist. He replied while looking into my eyes,
“No, I’m not an artist. It’s just my hobby,”
I realized that he was a human of very tender emotions and thoughts. Therefore, I dropped the idea of questioning him because it seemed to me that he mightn’t like such questions as the pebble of question mark always disturbs the water of wonder, the exclamation that we have.
“Would you let me know about your hobbies?” He asked.
“Yes why not! I like poetry, gardening, reading good books and of course enjoying nature and her creation,” I replied.
“I really feel great that you and I’ve the same hobbies. Nature and its creations give us the gifts that become our hobbies,” he said with a deep smile of intimacy.
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We both went to the garden and felt happy to find him there. He was sketching. His eyes had a strong focus as if gazing, which I had already noticed. He was focusing on the beautiful sight of the surrounding as if he was having a vision of it.
To my amazement, it seemed different to me, but when I looked at Monica, I found another wonder because she was smiling as if she had a vision.
“He is over there, you see he is sketching. His face seems silent. Isn’t it?” I could not resist asking her.
“Do you feel that this silent face is expression of anguish?” She said.
The way she looked at me without saying anything made me feel it. We always seem to repeat words without feeling. It was a sharing that was clearly from the way I asked, having these feelings of the feeling the pain and sorrows inside that come from the sight that silently convey it. It is like a human cry searching motherly feelings within us.
“Yaw, I strongly feel that it’s agony and anguish. Isn’t it?” I said.
“You’re just looking at the thorns and ignoring the flower. The anguish and agony are like thorns just protecting the flower of sensitivity. You know the behavior isn’t the image of idea. The pencil seems bent and short in the water, but it’s not so. In the water of sensitivity the image of a person seems as if narrow-minded who is bent into self-indulgence and dwelling on agony. It’s usually a deep concern about some natural cause like presence of thorns on the plant bearing the flower that is why we seek sensitivity to feel that flower and the plant aren’t two things, isn’t it?” She said.
“Well, you’re right. I can understand it though mayn’t fully comprehend it. I just go and talk to him.” I said.
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To my amazement, it seemed different to me, but when I looked at Monica, I found another wonder because she was smiling as if she had a vision.
“He is over there, you see he is sketching. His face seems silent. Isn’t it?” I could not resist asking her.
“Do you feel that this silent face is expression of anguish?” She said.
The way she looked at me without saying anything made me feel it. We always seem to repeat words without feeling. It was a sharing that was clearly from the way I asked, having these feelings of the feeling the pain and sorrows inside that come from the sight that silently convey it. It is like a human cry searching motherly feelings within us.
“Yaw, I strongly feel that it’s agony and anguish. Isn’t it?” I said.
“You’re just looking at the thorns and ignoring the flower. The anguish and agony are like thorns just protecting the flower of sensitivity. You know the behavior isn’t the image of idea. The pencil seems bent and short in the water, but it’s not so. In the water of sensitivity the image of a person seems as if narrow-minded who is bent into self-indulgence and dwelling on agony. It’s usually a deep concern about some natural cause like presence of thorns on the plant bearing the flower that is why we seek sensitivity to feel that flower and the plant aren’t two things, isn’t it?” She said.
“Well, you’re right. I can understand it though mayn’t fully comprehend it. I just go and talk to him.” I said.
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After a span of a month, I found him in a garden sitting alone in a pensive mood. Now, I felt concerned about it because, after all, being a human I’m not different from him humanly. I went home and narrated the whole story to my sister, Monica.
She is a psychotherapist.
However, she does not analyze only the personality because she believes in the holistic approach and follows the humanistic psychology as well as Philosophy as the root of the tree of human existence.
Howler, I usually prefer to call it philosophical counseling, rather than psychological.
“You know both sensitivity and sensibility are needed to understand and comprehend such creative people, otherwise it gets difficult to communicate,” she replied.
“Yes, you’re right. I fully agree with you,” I said.
“I’d like to see him,” she said.
“We’ll go to the Peace Garden early in the morning, he usually comes and sit at the same place every morning” I said.
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She is a psychotherapist.
However, she does not analyze only the personality because she believes in the holistic approach and follows the humanistic psychology as well as Philosophy as the root of the tree of human existence.
Howler, I usually prefer to call it philosophical counseling, rather than psychological.
“You know both sensitivity and sensibility are needed to understand and comprehend such creative people, otherwise it gets difficult to communicate,” she replied.
“Yes, you’re right. I fully agree with you,” I said.
“I’d like to see him,” she said.
“We’ll go to the Peace Garden early in the morning, he usually comes and sit at the same place every morning” I said.
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I look at the flowers on the plants and fragrance that seems making me feel sensitive. At this moment, if anybody had tried to talk to me I would have reacted with nervousness, as the self-felt or personal joy is wordless state of mind.
The nature gifts us with flowers; but we ignore the plant, branches, leaves, roots and thorns while plucking the flower just to enjoy its beauty and fragrance by separating it from its source as a mother, the plant.
The joy of having the flower seems so high that our nerves ignore the simile that is present within a human; the sensitivity is like a flower and nervousness is just trying to save the flower lest the fragrance leaves the feelings.
The words are from books but on getting touch of feelings and fragrance of sensitivity helps these words sprout like a flower. We have so many flowers that the plants bearing it seems just standing alone in anguish as if waiting for someone to see it with poets eye and motherly feelings.
The humanly nervousness is like a plant bearing the flowers of feelings and fragrance of sensitivity, the glowing of relatedness and belonging.
With these thoughts and feelings, I was leaving the garden, not the thoughts and feelings I had.
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The nature gifts us with flowers; but we ignore the plant, branches, leaves, roots and thorns while plucking the flower just to enjoy its beauty and fragrance by separating it from its source as a mother, the plant.
The joy of having the flower seems so high that our nerves ignore the simile that is present within a human; the sensitivity is like a flower and nervousness is just trying to save the flower lest the fragrance leaves the feelings.
The words are from books but on getting touch of feelings and fragrance of sensitivity helps these words sprout like a flower. We have so many flowers that the plants bearing it seems just standing alone in anguish as if waiting for someone to see it with poets eye and motherly feelings.
The humanly nervousness is like a plant bearing the flowers of feelings and fragrance of sensitivity, the glowing of relatedness and belonging.
With these thoughts and feelings, I was leaving the garden, not the thoughts and feelings I had.
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It seemed to me as if it was a breath of relaxation and satisfaction. It left an impression about which I might always wonder if it was the feelings similar to those that a prisoner would have on the moment that brings a relief on releasing day from the prison, the end of imprisonment.
“Is it possible that one’s presence may be felt as if it’s a prison? What can it be; prison of self-indulgence or self-imprisonment, thought or feelings of being in self-prison while in others’ presence? Why did he behave as a prisoner in my presence?” I was having many questions, but I tried to ignore it, as interfering in other’s life does not give any charm to me, though could not ignore it.
These questions were searching answers in my mind as such confusion may produce agony and anguish in one’s personal life and that is why I cannot resist pondering over it.
I always regret about the sensitivity and its recognition as nervousness. The nervous person seems to say something but we seem to be addicted of hearing words to create some bookish meaning.
This addiction of hearing words without feelings seem to work both as the stimulant and sedative that is why some people believe that the world is the like the vision of meanings created by the words that one listens, reads and says.
The person keeping good thoughts seem to have a different vision for the garden of humanity.
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“Is it possible that one’s presence may be felt as if it’s a prison? What can it be; prison of self-indulgence or self-imprisonment, thought or feelings of being in self-prison while in others’ presence? Why did he behave as a prisoner in my presence?” I was having many questions, but I tried to ignore it, as interfering in other’s life does not give any charm to me, though could not ignore it.
These questions were searching answers in my mind as such confusion may produce agony and anguish in one’s personal life and that is why I cannot resist pondering over it.
I always regret about the sensitivity and its recognition as nervousness. The nervous person seems to say something but we seem to be addicted of hearing words to create some bookish meaning.
This addiction of hearing words without feelings seem to work both as the stimulant and sedative that is why some people believe that the world is the like the vision of meanings created by the words that one listens, reads and says.
The person keeping good thoughts seem to have a different vision for the garden of humanity.
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He looked at me with friendly smile, I also responded with a deep smile, the charm of the face. However, I noticed that his paintbrush slowly stopped working with its original flow.
I realized that my presence made him feel disturbed, just for a simple reason that I knew him because of his presence there, but for him I was a stranger, as it seemed to me that he had never looked at me before in the garden.
It made me feel concerned about him while thinking that he was a very sensitive person because otherwise he should not get distracted. I felt sorry for this human nature that we may not know those who know us at the same time when we know many people who know nothing about us, like I was for him.
I left the place without saying anything.
While I was leaving, my humanly concern made me to had another look at him, it was the look that I cared for him.
However, I was not aware that his eyes were following my feet leaving the garden, so my giving him a look to see what it was that we all share as humans made me a kind of experience that I had no words to express it.
While his not looking at my face, but I could see his face, what I saw was more amazing than his just feeling disturbed. As I was leaving, he took a deep breath.
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I realized that my presence made him feel disturbed, just for a simple reason that I knew him because of his presence there, but for him I was a stranger, as it seemed to me that he had never looked at me before in the garden.
It made me feel concerned about him while thinking that he was a very sensitive person because otherwise he should not get distracted. I felt sorry for this human nature that we may not know those who know us at the same time when we know many people who know nothing about us, like I was for him.
I left the place without saying anything.
While I was leaving, my humanly concern made me to had another look at him, it was the look that I cared for him.
However, I was not aware that his eyes were following my feet leaving the garden, so my giving him a look to see what it was that we all share as humans made me a kind of experience that I had no words to express it.
While his not looking at my face, but I could see his face, what I saw was more amazing than his just feeling disturbed. As I was leaving, he took a deep breath.
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I started to wonder if the world outside the garden really exited for him. Whenever I looked the way, he was enjoying and I felt it for the first time that the garden was something different like a paradise.
The garden always remained the gathering of silent beauty of nature, but now I started to feel that the natural beauty speaks through everything present there. Gradually, I started to realize that the small things were more beautiful than big things like the small flowers on the plants with butterflies dancing on it.
I also started to forget world outside and he seemed the mystery of the garden. The mystery is an invitation to explore, and thus I wanted to know more about him.
For next few days, he did not come to the garden, as I did not see him anywhere, particularly at his chosen place.
I had a heavy workload so I remain busy in my work so a week passed without my going there. On the weekend, I went to the garden early in the morning. It was a pleasure to see him there again. I was feeling curious to know what kind of person he was, so in my own mood I went close to him.
I was very pleased to see what he was doing there, while sitting alone. I was having a thought of a praising him as I could see him busy with his paintbrush, colors and drawing papers. I felt more curious to see what exactly he was making.
So, I happily went close to him, I saw him making sketches of the flowers, mountains and other natural beauties.
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The garden always remained the gathering of silent beauty of nature, but now I started to feel that the natural beauty speaks through everything present there. Gradually, I started to realize that the small things were more beautiful than big things like the small flowers on the plants with butterflies dancing on it.
I also started to forget world outside and he seemed the mystery of the garden. The mystery is an invitation to explore, and thus I wanted to know more about him.
For next few days, he did not come to the garden, as I did not see him anywhere, particularly at his chosen place.
I had a heavy workload so I remain busy in my work so a week passed without my going there. On the weekend, I went to the garden early in the morning. It was a pleasure to see him there again. I was feeling curious to know what kind of person he was, so in my own mood I went close to him.
I was very pleased to see what he was doing there, while sitting alone. I was having a thought of a praising him as I could see him busy with his paintbrush, colors and drawing papers. I felt more curious to see what exactly he was making.
So, I happily went close to him, I saw him making sketches of the flowers, mountains and other natural beauties.
Copyright by Dr. Harmander Singh-Protected and archived by World_Wide_OCR_dot_com Seal (TM) File, Canada
How to Get in Touch with Youth and Teen and Counsel them to Win over Failures, Stresses, Loneliness, Depression, Addiction and Money Matters-II
Next day, I saw him again, he was writing something; while sitting near the rows of flowers in the garden. He was sitting alone, though in the solitude, yet very peacefully. I also enjoyed this humanly feelings of joy in the solitude.
I could grasp the theme and concept of what he was writing, as it seemed clear that he was writing something about nature and its beauty, as he was looking flowers, plants and trees.
I usually saw him sitting there enjoying the little things as if these are of great importance.
Slowly, I began to appreciate him. I liked the way he would look at everything in the garden. I saw him enjoying even the colorful honeybees, butterflies and flying birds in the garden.
He would watch the butterfly arriving at the flowers on the plants, sitting on different flowers as if one swims on the sea of beauty.
The way he would view made me feel as if birds were chirping and singing songs to the butterflies, plants, trees and everybody present in the garden.
Copyright by Dr. Harmander Singh-Protected and archived by World_Wide_OCR_dot_com Seal (TM) File, Canada
I could grasp the theme and concept of what he was writing, as it seemed clear that he was writing something about nature and its beauty, as he was looking flowers, plants and trees.
I usually saw him sitting there enjoying the little things as if these are of great importance.
Slowly, I began to appreciate him. I liked the way he would look at everything in the garden. I saw him enjoying even the colorful honeybees, butterflies and flying birds in the garden.
He would watch the butterfly arriving at the flowers on the plants, sitting on different flowers as if one swims on the sea of beauty.
The way he would view made me feel as if birds were chirping and singing songs to the butterflies, plants, trees and everybody present in the garden.
Copyright by Dr. Harmander Singh-Protected and archived by World_Wide_OCR_dot_com Seal (TM) File, Canada
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