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How to Learn Self-Revelations with Philselfology - The Talk Tail and Burning Candles Help a Lot - Psychic and Intuitive Platform of Inner Wisdom and Voice 4 Law of Affinity and Attraction - 5

I was lost in the idea. My talk tail bent as all of my ideas burst into a laughter as they were looking at me with a controlled laughter. I just looked at them and the laughter had to make a move in the creative chess of talk tail.

How to Learn Self-Revelations with Philselfology - Honeybee Bites for Defense - The Psychic and Intuitive Platform of Inner Wisdom and Voice 4 Law of Affinity and Attraction - 4

“Yaw, you know; to enjoy moods we’ve to put the candle on otherwise we can’t enjoy any mood. The urge seems a resultant of what senses perceive as a first person. The mood is absent in urge as it seems a need at first glance. We recall taste, touch, sight, smell and other sensations as if stimulating to enjoy it. It seems that ignore moods. I’ve met many people, who follow urge without mood and thus emotional management; and I feel concerned about it that they suffer a lot as others misuse and abuse them emotionally. It’s just to reach at the level; where we can understand, comprehend and enjoy our moods. The glands seem to work as in emergency if moods are ignored. Isn’t it?” I said.

How to Learn Self-Revelations with Philselfology- Case of Smiling as a Newsreader - The Psychic and Intuitive Platform of Inner Wisdom and Voice 4 Law of Affinity and Attraction- 3

“No, I can’t have it in few words. Anyway, as you know that the urge remains when we feel like a first person, if we give it a touch of intellect by reflecting on it as a second person it gets some direction. This is the time when the first need of urge was fulfilled by converting part of emotional energy into intellectual energy. The urge changes into a desire. Without changing urge into desire, the management of desires isn’t possible. Then we call for an observer to discern whether this urge turned into desire is our need or simply a desire. It’s to put the candle of wisdom on because the wisdom can do it without any effort, like poet’s eye. Isn’t it?” He said.

How to Learn Self-Revelations with Philselfology - Laughter Heals and Reveals - The Psychic and Intuitive Platform of Inner Wisdom and Voice 4 Law of Affinity and Attraction- 2

We always start the nonverbal communication with the surroundings and leave as if a stranger. The garden always finds and welcomes us as the known strangers. Whenever I visit here, it seems as if my first coming and leave as the last.


The garden seems to feel in the opposite as it waits for me. Monica told a joke that day and we laughed. She is witty and laughter is the medicine that she uses for others and for herself.

How to Learn Self-Revelations with Philselfology - The Tags of Inner Beauty - The Psychic and Intuitive Platform of Inner Wisdom and Voice 4 Law of Affinity and Attraction - 1

We are continuing from the previous series. Our topic for self-counseling is how to learn the creative thinking and the scientific feelings that help revealing the unknown in the most mysterious way. Thanks!

You see our mind works wonders with the magic touch of psychic learning and natural intuitions and that was what he said in a funny way.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Healthe Care - 21

“Yaw, you’re talking about a group or the company that one keeps, what about the social environment. It also influences, you may wonder that some youngsters without any group may do such actions that appear to be part of some influential group. In this case, the social environment works as the group would do. Here, if we just imagine that there’re many candles that aren’t burning, with just one burning candle may lit all candles, isn’t it,” he said.


“Yaw, you see as I was happy that there’s just one burning candle, and it doesn’t matter if there’re other candles that aren’t burning. It means, just one creative thought is the bank of all thoughts, isn’t it,” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth to Enjoy Burning Candle - 20

“Well, you see it depends on the age of the person, the investment of time energy for a school going child differs from a school going teacher, though both are going to the same place, isn’t it. Wait a minute, you see the teacher is like a burning candle and the student is like a candle that needs to reach a level where we can compare it with a burning candle, isn’t it,” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth to Be Happy Mammals - 19

“OK; isn’t true that almost all mothers like their children?” He asked.


“Well, you see mothers are after all mothers among all mammals, including humans, and they can’t hate their children, no matter what others say about them, isn’t it,” I said.


“Well, do you agree that the whole of human creativeness that we’ve can be useful?” He asked.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Enjoying Goodness - 18

“Well, you see we use stored water in the dam for producing electricity and all other socially useful and productive works are because of time management. You were happy to feel that you can use the three other candles after the fourth one burn in an hour. You were happy with this energy. For the aims, purpose and objectives of time management, we need to accept that like the candles, all humans are source of emotional, intellectual and time energy, isn’t it,” he said.


“Yes, but how can we assume that all humans are good, it seems impossible, isn’t it,” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Using Time Management - 17

“Yes, now the thought and action of stealing the purse are same, but both are feeling differently; why is that?” He asked.


“You see the thief is happy because the money may fulfill the desires and the person in need mayn’t feel happy because the way one gets money counts. The way of stealing isn’t good in the other person’s view. OK, it’s clear, what is the next point,” I asked.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Handling Crime and Criminals - 16

“I see, you know most of the people believe that way. We repeat the process of the candle for a person, whom we consider a criminal. Just imagine that a criminal is committing a crime,” he said.



“OK, I imagine that a thief is going to steal a purse from a lady, is it OK,” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth to Solve and Resolve Anti-Social Activities - 15

“Yes, you see the idleness can’t cause any harm if we understand the concept of time management, isn’t it,” he said.


“Yes, it seems right, the time management may help in such a marvelous way that we mayn’t have to face such odd situations, isn’t it. How would you co-relate it with the candles?” I asked.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Time and Financial Management - 14

“Well, you see it seems that my imagining about the candles while burning and not burning, saving one, happy with one burning, sad when all off, satisfied with whatever happens with the candles in different contexts; all of this makes sense. I’ve a funny thought; what would you say about the action of blowing off the candle and to light it on? Is it a dead action just because every reaction that occurs depends on the circumstances and the conditions; not on the action alone, isn’t it,” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth to Handle Actions and Reaction for Any Situation - 13

“Well, if the other person knows it why I do, we may laugh and clap together, isn’t it, wait a minute. How comes that we’ve the opposite reaction on the same action. If two people know what they’re going to do, it’s an idea of management; otherwise it’d appear as interference and creating disturbance leading to mismanagement and thus arguments, isn’t it. Gosh, one thing with two results, unbelievable, isn’t it,” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Self and Time Management - 12

“Well, you’re very close to the concept of self-management with the help of time management. You see if one’s enjoying the burning candle and you suddenly out of compassion blow it off, one’s going to thank you unless it is clear why you did so. You blow the candle off for saving, while the one enjoying it isn’t aware of your concept. There is chance of anger and argument and perhaps quarreling. Can you tell, please, after all your good intentions and efforts, you face rebuking?” He said.


“Well, I’d not say that it’s a right thing to do, isn’t it,” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Saving Time Energy - 11

“Wow, it’s a good idea. I’ve two candles, I can use these whenever I need, I like it,” I said.


“Hey; what about the idea of a burning candle?” He asked.


“Well, you see we’ve to save our candles, isn’t it,” I said.


“OK, now comes the last point, there’s a burning candle and you’re going to blow it off,” he said.


“OK, I’ve blown it off, and it’s the saved time energy, isn’t it,” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Saving Time Energy Mentally - 10

“Well, you see we’ve the thought of the candles and burning it; isn’t it. OK, what we need to do now is to have one more retreat. This retreat is for management of time energy and its management for emotional and intellectual energy. Please don’t interrupt, it’s a simple thing. Just imagine about the four candles in which only one is burning; for how long can it burn?” He asked.


“Well, you see it can burn at most for an hour, I suppose, isn’t it,” I replied.


“Yaw, you’re right. You see there’s a time limit for each burning candle, isn’t it. The duration for which it can burn is the time energy that it posses, isn’t it,” he said.


“Wow, it’s right; you see after burning for an hour it has no energy to burn, but how can we’ve more time energy, if we need,” I asked.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Smiling Like a Flower - 9

“Well, it doesn’t matter, I can’t panic, I can have all other candles burning on with this one, isn’t it,” I said.


“Isn’t it amazing that you’re not sad about seeing three candles not burning, a moment ago, you were sad to imagine that two candles are burning and two aren’t burning?” He said.


“Wow, it’s an imaging idea; you see I don’t understand it. I feel that the thought of one burning candle can’t allow me to compare all of the four candles, but it’s a wonderful idea, isn’t it,” I said.


“All right, now suppose you’ve to compare it; how will do it?” He asked.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Watering the Plant of Emotions - 8

“Hey, why are you getting angry, you’re using your thoughts like honeybees and can’t find the honey in the candles that aren’t burning? Just imagine for the sake of candles and our idea that the thoughts rob honey from our flowers of feelings on the plant of emotions, isn’t it,” he said.


“Gosh, these seem the crazy thoughts. OK, I’ve four candles in my imaginations, but these aren’t burning, what I should do, can I lit one by one or all together,” I asked.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Simile Ray in Imagination - 7

“No, we’ve come to the conclusive stage; we’ll retreat, while deliberating about all steps. The first retreat, well you see this retreat is simply surrender of thoughts to have a touch of common sense or wisdom, OK, just imagine you’ve the same candles, OK. The new thought with surrender is that you’ve two candles burning and other two not burning. Just remember, meanwhile that you’re recalling the same candles for a comparison, all right,” he said.


“Well, you see I can enjoy the two burning candles, while the set of two that isn’t burning seems to make me feel bit sad, isn’t it, but why” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Learning Stepwise - 6

“Well, the next step is that in your next thought you’re going to blow off the first candle that is burning,” he said.


“Gosh, I can have this thought, but you see it doesn’t look nice. Anyway, I’m blowing it off. It goes off, now I’ve one candle burning and the first one not burning, I can enjoy what I did, but not the thought that I’ve blown off one candle. It doesn’t give great charm, isn’t it,” I said.


“Well, we’ve to go to next step. Now, have a thought of blowing the second candle off as well,” he said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Burning Candles in Mind - 5

“Well, it sounds good. Let’s take an example. Suppose I’ve a thought of burning candle. How can you say that it depends on imaginations, can you tell me, please?” I asked.


“OK, let’s move ahead step by step. You’ve thought of a candle in your mind, isn’t it,” he said.


“Yaw, I’ve thought of a candle in mind, but I said it’s a thought of burning candle, you remember,” I replied.


“OK, did you light the candle on?” He asked.


“Well, no, I’ve the thought of burning candle, why do I need to lit it on, it’s already on, isn’t it,” I said.

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“Well, you see the anger is just a mood, like a strong wave in the emotional energy seeking a way-out. In other words, when a desire isn’t fulfilled anger usually follows it. It’s a call for emotional management. You know it very well that management without a supervisor and observer isn’t possible. Do you understand what I mean?” He said.


“Gosh, you see I do understand that the anger is just self-defense for the stability of our emotions. That is why we need emotional management, isn’t it so?” l replied.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Desire Management - 3

“Wow, I agree, you see even in education if we change the syllabus during the session, both the teachers and the students feel like the honeybee, which can’t find its nest. It’s amazing, I never realized that it’s not our education and knowledge that troubles, rather it is the purpose for which we gain it. If the purpose changes, we feel as if we’ve no aim and objective even though we know everything about it, isn’t it. Well, it means we don’t need to educate our self for a purpose which may change. The right way seems to accept education as food for our personal development. You see we can struggle for personal development because this purpose never changes. Isn’t it wonderful?” I said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth for Directing Emotional Energy - 2

“Well, you see you know it that wood can’t work as the candle does. The urges are like the signals from our body alarming us to use the compass for direction. The emotional energy needs management like other energies. What you call emotional satisfaction is the need of the body, but we can’t surrender to it without using the compass of intellect. The intellect provides the options and the choices as if offering breathing, I mean leading it beyond what we call the feelings of suffocation in which we can’t find any direction, isn’t it,” he said.

How to Learn Self-Healing with Philselfology as the Self-Guidance and Counseling for Law of Affinity and Attraction for Self-Empowering Youth to Use Intellect Compass - 1

Now, we are going to use our previous knowledge from the series and various parts of it for learning the Self-Healing. We know a lot, but usually lack practice and thus it is how we begin our next series:


The spirit of sports without practice hunts the player. Even the singer, if stops singing, the same happenings occur as it is with other educated youngsters.

Therefore, my concern was with both flowers and honey as I said it in my discussion with Monica and him.

How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth for Fair Life and Deals - 21

The philosophy engraves the thoughts and thinking processes and the patterns with such an ideology that hurries and worries cannot corrupt our mind. We seem to lack the idealism while materializing our wishes and desires.


It always makes me think of the popular saying that everything is fair in war and love. Now, both of these lack philosophy.

How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth for Skillfully Use the Sharp Knife of Intellect - 20

“Well, you see when we work with conditions; we seem to leave so many options and choices that the addiction of routine makes us feel sick, as you said; the work alcoholic craving for some work satisfaction. It leaves no time for personal life in seems just a good dream of a film or a book. The lack of time for personal life makes it tasteless and when we interact socially, everything seems tasteless. Isn’t it?” I said.


As I proposed a question, I realized that the emotional and intellectual maturity allows more room for feelings, emotions, thoughts and ideas.

How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth for Enjoying Satisfaction as a Child in Rain and Rainbow - 19

“Well, you see the personal life is the instrument that we can play alone like making a prayer. The society this way seems the orchestra and the person in our contact sometimes doesn’t stop playing one’s instrument so that we could enjoy the social orchestra. This makes the conversation just a noise of words having no rapport and we can’t enjoy,” she said.


“How can we enjoy, when we don’t know how to feel and enjoy what we are doing?” I said smilingly.

How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth Come out of Self - Created Jail and Imprisonment - 18

She said, while her eyes were not open. I wondered if closing the eyes is enough for it. I found the charm of poet’s eye that can look around, while closed. However, it was difficult to make it imprisoned so I released the words, while feelings remained in my heart because I wanted to live.


“Gosh, you see both of you seem to make the words slave of meaning, anyway I try. Our prison is for punishment and the lock outside is like a hanging message saying do not disturb me, please. Is it right?” I said to her.


“Yaw, you see you’re very close pondering about this punishment; keep trying,” she said.


She was saying it as if she is an in-charge of the prison; the bipolar jailor, who imprisons with both the caring and the guidance.

It was so awful that I could not stop or even pause my words as the reaction was from feelings not mind that can hide feelings as if a jailer.

How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth for Listening to the Silence of Inner Music - 17

“Well, you see when we consider about the bio-rhythmic of our body it’s like a harmony of music where instruments aren’t present. The whole body works with synchronization and always in resonance. Isn’t it wonderful?” She said.


Her saying, while closing her eyes was clear to me that like a child imagines about many beautiful things; we, the young ones have the similar options. Her closed eyes were as if trying to listen to this music within.


I know; she listens to it. She says that if we can observe silence within, the joy of it is like listening to music. The words may create noise, but the silence is the rhythmic of all words and sounds. She says it differently, that the joy of silence with someone is the joy of presence.

How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth to Dispel the Bipolar Disharmony - 16

I added some common points of social importance as I was sure to find in his next few statements that we all can enjoy the self-polarization and the freedom of selflessness.


“Well, you see I’ve the same views, you know the patient would sacrifice any part of the body, while doing the best possible to save the body to live and remain normal. Well, how can we use it in the counseling?” I asked.

How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth for Going Beyond Loss and Gain to Avoid Self Created Jail, Imprisonment and Punishment - 15

“Well, you see I can comprehend your ideas, I feel that at one level these options and choices influence the children and the young people to the extent that habits and the related addictions reach the social maladjustment, where we seem to label it crime and punishment, isn’t it?” I replied.


I could feel his sensitivity about these issues.


Monica looked at me, while I glanced at her. I realized why he bothers about the big issues.

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While, it was just a blow of air, and I remembered something; I had just a thought about what we discussed last time and he could read it that my flower of thought had the fragrance of feelings.


He never misses any opportunity, when it is for the creative healing. The flying smile as if a mirror, showed its image in the words as he opened his smile to give verbal expression.

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One of the best points about Monica is that she does not order. Her discussions are rich as if it is a treasure of wisdom that she has gained from the self-felt feelings and experiences. She can wait for hours, however to keep discipline she stands up and starts to scroll around. I once asked her,


“Why do you start scrolling once you finish any discussion?”

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“Well, we look certain traits in a child and make it a case of follow up; it misses the totality that is present within the child. We do it because we can’t find the seven colors in the white. Even if a child seem to have choice for a certain color it doesn’t ensure that the choice has been made, rather we may have failed to explain the importance of other colors that the child doesn’t like. It seems funny when we compare it with music. We can’t say that one likes a part of gamut as if some colors out of seven. I find it amazing that the art of music is blend as that of the colors; isn’t it,” I said.

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“OK, you see we know the reason and causes of whatever happen to such an extent that we’re also addicted of this knowledge and want to lit the candle with knowledge alone. In our knowledge the emotional, rather the creative people can’t find feelings, the fire that may burn their candles. The joy that the compass indicate the direction is a miracle of nature not our invention. We may just show the compass to a child, and observe how it sees it and wonders about this miracle. The child is bestowed with poet’s eye, but this art isn’t of words, rather it’s of feeling. Slowly, while learning words and the meanings, we find that the metaphor is hidden in the compass only, the ship seems flying on the ocean of words without the air of feelings. The child feels that the direction isn’t important as we seek it that it should react that we should be asked for it, the wonder of direction, isn’t it,” he said.

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The magnet has two opposite poles, but it co-exits with affinity and creates the magnetic field. The iron cannot do it. However, if we align the atoms of iron in one direction the magnet is formed. The creative people can magnetize the thoughts and emotions as the poles of magnet of intelligence in this context. The wonder also lies in it that the same is true with the semiconductors, in which the insulators participate as the conductors.


Thus, they, the creative ones create literature from words, music from sounds and paintings from colors and so on that we cannot count. It was a time for me to refresh and regain the prima factor of the discussion, while making reflection as a review on a comment on what he was saying.


However, I did not need, as he proceeded with the power of resonance in his next idea.

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“All right, you see, here’s the point. He’s not overemphatic; it’s a one of the ways to draw other person’s attention with richness of concentration. This is part of counseling, I see, OK; keep going I just want to listen and will speak when I feel so,” she said.


“Well, I’ve a poem about it, and we may share it,” he said.

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“Well, I understand what you mean our positive behavior and right frame of mind is like a compass for others. We seem to teach, the compass doesn’t teach, it simply gives the direction like option. We usually believe that option and choice is the same thing. Therefore, we seem to teach how one should feel, but it doesn’t seem possible. You know, the people with same options have different feelings. Our attempt to make children feel the way others feel doesn’t seem the right way. You see we can’t imitate the feelings, but the behavior is an imitated practice of an individual. Then how can we understand the causes of delinquency and what we label as bad character?” I said.

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“Hey, are you there? Wow, you know, you’re right; I feel that we seek to see the individual behaving in a conditioned way; I mean the way we expect to see in accordance with the image we’ve formed for the person. It doesn’t allow the person to react differently. This seems suppression of creativity that we may be blocking just because we block our reactions towards an individual behaving differently at some occasions and moments; I mean the situations. If a sad person laughs, angry shows courtesy, brave cries, compassionate ignores the practice of affection, person usually showing awfulness expresses wonder, and so on, all makes us rigid emotionally as if we’re seeking no change within us, and thus among others, isn’t it,” he said.

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I knew only very little about it. The knowledge about the psychosomatic faculty goes immediately to catch these words. It was the same reaction; I was having, as he had for some terms and words in the psychology. It was going to be a turning point in the discussion.


“Well, you see the psychic center is like a meeting center for our five senses. The senses perceive and when the facts are placed on the table of psychic center, the decision is given emotionally. We may ponder for a while to have a touch from the intellect as an anchor for this emotional elephant and compass for the ship in the ocean of emotions, isn’t it?” He said.

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To me, it appears social creativeness and our sharpness of intellect, but I prefer the creativity and thus the creative intelligence. I like her idea.


Her idea is to jump the hurdle without removing it from the track, so she breaks my silence,


“Drishta, come on; use your sixth sense, OK!”

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“Well, you see it’s simply the frequency that decides the pitch, sound and voice. It seems to me that frequency in light and sound share waves, if we assume it as the infra side of it. Does it sound right?” I said.


“You’re right at very reduced level of amplitude of light waves the waves of sound appear to have a close simile as that’s in the ultraviolet rays showing the low level as if red or thermal energy to the conductors. The sound of two people in resonance adds frequency giving something very different and you may wonder if hundred people sing in resonance and rhythm. It makes a wonderful effect on our emotional energy?” He said smilingly.


“You keep on adding energy to emotional energy as if sketching an elephant. Isn’t it?” I said.

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The making of new meanings for refreshing our feelings as the changes in the moods seemed his taste and way of discussing. I looked as his face with a smile knowing that the honeybee with butterfly does not enjoy only the beauty of the flower, but also knows how to extract the honey, the wisdom of the flower.


It was the exaltation of knowledge to the edges of wisdom, though in his words it was wisdom of candle as we were following the same thought on two tracks, the simile was one for three the honeybee, butterfly and the candle.


He did not break the light of wisdom by turning his back to it as he carried the discussion,

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“Well, you know; we are sensitive to light when we consider our eyes, for which the light is medium and if our eyes act like conductors, it’ll emit water only. Isn’t it rejecting light and light glares?” He said.


He and Monica smiled together. They had the affinity of thoughts and emotions.

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Please read this series in continuity with the Previous Parts as the base for it. Now, we are having more focus on the Law of Affinity to boost the Law of Attraction because both are one as if two sides of a coin and our picking a stick from any side. Thanks!

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“Well, you see it depends on how we use it. Our human body as a conductor for both lights in any cosmic form bears the effects which influence us by different means and I wonder if we can escape from the bad effect on our health care and its management. There’s no harm in energy in different forms, like light, thermal and associated radiation energy. If we learn to use our body as a natural conductor like taking sunbath, it heals us. These natural concepts work as ideals that we use in our common sense and daily life. It’s same as candle and wood,” he said.

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“You are right, but the microwaves are particle side of light. Like in bulbs when it gives light and heat the thing that works behind it the intensity and speed of flow of electrons producing the effect on the kind of conductor it is passing through. We can’t get light from the wire of iron as a conductor as it can give heat energy in reddish color. Is it right?” He asked.


“Wow, it seems amazing, isn’t it? You’re right, but what it has to do with microwaves?” I asked.

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“Well, you see it’s the proper use of light energy. You know the light in different colors have different effects as particle and wave. For example, the red color carries high thermal energy and the blue carries the high level of frequency and vibrations. It has its effects very significant when we discuss about infrared and ultra violet. Isn’t it?” I said.


I felt happy with my knowledge about light and colors. The perfection of knowledge is not attainable, yet sometimes what we know seems perfect. This feeling keeps us behaving like a kid; this is what I felt while I replied to him.

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The way he was answering touching the level, which was new, though I could access. As I was not familiar with these topics for all intents and purposes, so I again could not find the proper answer.


However, I know that my not understanding any idea or thought does not falsify it. Rather, it creates the grounds for arrival of light of clarity as if emerging from the affinity of thoughts, which otherwise seem contradictory.


“You see it seems to me that light alone can’t give us heat and fire. Please tell me about which light are you talking?” I said.

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“Well, you know when we’re in deep sleep we’re like the paraffin, on waking up we come to the conscious level, it’s melting such that our senses start to work consciously and burn calories. The burning of calories accompanies it naturally, as if burning of the wood; so, we start our daily routine, isn’t it?” He said.


“Yaw; it’s wonderful and what about thread and fire. Is there something common in these?” I said.

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The Australia is getting a victim of the global racism in which courtiers are being forced to have more weapons and arms. The defense is what sacks and sucks all the funds that people earn. If the citizens of Australia, particularly those, who are involved in attacking the overseas people, particularly the Indian students need to note it seriously that world is leading towards a market of space science and technology and the many developed countries have this trade of selling the best security and scrutiny system, which the ordinary people can solve without forces and the peace corps, just by cooperating one another.


The Australia has a long history of not involving in any kind of global violence, war and terrorism. Now, what is happening does not appear to be the Australian mind working behind the violent activities. Once, I strongly stated in the school debates in the Muirden Matriculation College, Adelaide, South Australia that the Australians are getting the servants of the foreign companies in the local market and one day they will be the puppets. I was rebuked for making such a rude statement. I had to make it clear to get accepted as a warning for better future of Australia.

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It was a new idea for me. I have a weakness that is the base of my strength, I cannot allow any thought, idea or emotion enters into my mind without grasping the ideals behind it.


It made me realize how one defends and protects the thoughts, ideas and emotions with such rich feelings as if a fence of flowers surrounding all around.


No wonder it is an aura. Even then, it seems to many people that this fence is offensive, as if offense lacking the common sense, however again it is the social view of common sense, otherwise it is sign of wisdom and genius.


How hard it can be for the gardener of the fence to pluck the flower.

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“Can you tell me, please; what does light and heat represent, Bhagouauty?” I said to him.


“You see the foods on the plants and trees never get cold while we talk, discuss, think and feel about it. Anyway, you’re talking about light and heat, the need of all living things, isn’t it. Well, the light is common in both fires that of wood and candle, but both of the heats are different. One is like wisdom of light and the other is like wisdom for work. Both combined together give wisdom of work, the creative intelligence supported by intelligence. It’s a practical approach, isn’t it?” He said.

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“Well, you know; in the burning of wood the wood is directly consumed by the fire. So the burning of wood and candle follow different paths and we can make cup of tea on the burning wood, isn’t it?” He asked.


He never misses passing a smile to Monica and me. It is smile of joy, not of winning an argument.


The taste of discussion needs a flavor of argument-not just arguing to win the discussion because that is debate, though I believe that arguing and debate together can support a good discussion-the discussion does not have any other option, but sharing-again it has no room for arguing, so I was sure that he would not have answer for my next question as I asked him,

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“Wow, you mean the knowledge without the thread of experience can’t give light. Well, I agree and it consumes our paraffin of knowledge giving us the wisdom of light. You seem to say that knowledge alone is like the paraffin. Isn’t it?” I said.


I felt the proud of richness of joy of blend of emotions with the intellect that evolved from the discussion.


“Here you’re; you see now your words are getting the feelings about which we’re talking. Can you make a cup of tea on the burning candle?” He said laughingly.

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His saying, while looking at me and my giving the positive response makes the discussion flow smoothly.


“All right; can the candle burn without the thread in it?” He asked.


“No, the candle needs a thread. Wow, it’s a wonderful idea” I replied.


We started to enjoy the discussion. The journey into the candle along with the thread was interesting.


The creative people do not just ignite, the taking of initiative and burn as the candle, their thread that appears as creativity also burns to keep the glow alive.

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It seemed right that the candle once put on spreads light; however it melts and burns while doing so.


I was not aware about the candle about which he was going to talk when there was enough sunlight.


He looked at me as if I was comparing the candle and the sunlight.


“You know, once you know what’s this melting and burning is as you may assume that you’ve passed the exam of real life, isn’t it,” he said to me.


“Can you tell me what’s this melting and burning is?” I asked.

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This kind of socialization with humans was same as enjoying nature. I wondered if the differences in the human nature, opinions, attitudes and other traits were like the plants, trees, flowers, butterflies, birds and it was so as I could feel it in the conversation we have full of joy, smile, laughter and depth of thought that we all share as humans.


The chirping bird broke my silence in thoughts as he said,

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“Yaw, you’re right, you see we lack the knowledge about the poet’s eye. It’s the concept of opening of the third eye, which the creative people have done and they thus fail to socialize in the same way as the ordinary people do. It’s our fault that we claim to have poet’s eye without opening the third eye, the aesthetic nerve working in our vision of the nature, people and society. We’re illiterate in this matter practically, so we may better understand at least the self-polarization, which is simply as it gives us the sense of equality, which the creative people enjoy, isn’t it,” she said.

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“What is self-polarization?” She said.


“You see we may focus on the neutral point of the magnet. Our mind is most stable when we’ve magnetic fields of both poles are equally distributed. Thus, it reminds me of why the people, who practice meditation, focus on the center of the forehead just above the eyebrows. They say that it neutralizes the thoughts and one can enjoy the bliss of thoughtlessness, is it right?” I said.

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“You see the creative intelligence needs the company of emotions. On the other hand, the intelligence needs the company of information, the facts and figures to show the marvel of intellect. We fail to provide company to the creative people as we’re not creative in our social life. We improve intelligence and attract social attention for better living. However, the creative people have great affinity with nature, fellow humans, emotions and thus the creative arts, isn’t it,” she said.

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“Yaw, and that’s the major problem that they find themselves as if having two personalities, which others can find more easily. So, they are referred to the doctors and psychiatrists. They’re basically so intelligent that they know that they react in two ways, but others make them believe that it’s not normal. They accept it and want to change this outlook. However, others wrong because they don’t have any knowledge of their own splitting of magnet,” she said.


“How can you say that others don’t have any knowledge of splitting or bipolar disorders?” I said.

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“Our intelligence is dominating, so we slowly learn to surrender our creative intelligence and the associated magnetic field of feelings. It causes the suppression of emotions,” she said.


“I believe that our creative intelligence is stronger than our intelligence. Then, how can we surrender to the weaker pole?” I said.

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“All right, you see our mind has two poles. One is the creative intelligence and the other is the intelligence. The one, the creative intelligence supports the emotions and the other absorbs it because the magnetic waves move from one pole to another. You may consider the opposite as equally right. The reason is that the creative intelligence also absorbs the emotions and the intelligence supports the emotions in many cases,” she said.


I could not resist interrupting her and she already noticed it and paused, while looking at my face.

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“Do we magnetize our fears?” I asked her.


“Yaw, the negative poles attracts the positive and attraction weakens the other pole. You see the magnet field weakens and appears as if splitting has occurred. So, others treat us as if we’ve two poles,” she said.


“I wonder. How can you say that others treat us as if we’ve two poles? Now you seem to contradict the concept of magnet, doesn’t the magnet have two poles?” I said.


“All right, when we act at the emotional level, while writing a book creatively and someone comes without knocking the door, what does happen?” She said.

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“Drishta, you know we’ve moods that help us to do all of the works, whether creative or intellectual. The moods aren’t understood nowadays in a way ones feels and expresses. We socialize as if forcing our moods to interact in the known ways. These known ways seem normal to us, but eventually these cause suppression of our emotions, and we split our magnet, isn’t it,” she said.


“I see. However, why do we split it, and who forces us to do so?” I said.

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While strolling in the garden in the morning next day, Monica and I discussed and felt that he usually recalls the good moments of his life, while he shares with us.


She said that good moments of life are like the catalyst to stabilize the randomness of our carving for our aim, while having many conflicts and contradictions in our life.


“Well, what kind of contradictions do we’ve while achieving aim of our life?” I asked.

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Though, it may seem same, the personal development is art of self-development, whereas the personality development is more of social development, the social approval for personal differences.


A creative human may not have good personality socially as it is not one’s need to be creative, and likewise the good personality may not confirm that one is leading towards the emotional and intellectual maturity.


Their conversation changed the flow as all of a sudden my sixth sense put my thought bulb on, and thus I was asking him,

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It was 9.30 o'clock and we enjoyed every moment of our gathering.


It was a good to see so many smiles flying in the room as if butterflies, it was the time to leave.


“Madam, I don’t know how to thank you. I don’t have words. It’s right time for me to leave now. Would you allow me?” He said.


“Have you ever heard flowers speaking, why should we spoil it with words? Of course, it was nice to meet you, after so long. It’s indeed so, we thank you,” Monica said with a smile.

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Well, you see the series that we are going to start follows the previous series, and I strongly recommend that kindly take it as useful lessons and tips of real life problems because all that is described in it as real as the expressions in the fictitious form that conveys the real experiences of life. Thanks and one may follow the previous parts at HERE.


Now we move to the present lessons and tips from real life-a collection of Multiple Counseling (I have done PhD in the Multiple Counseling with the name Philselfology-The Alternative Ways for Self-guidance and counseling in the AM pattern-the Alternative Medicines and the Medical World) useful only if one implements, though in the way one wishes as all of it depends on the social and cultural background as well. These are the options and one always need to make a choice when such options are present. Thanks again!

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“All right, I’ll take care of your precious suggestions. Thanks a lot, madam,” he said.


He thanked her with a deep regard. I felt that she was teaching him like a mother. It is her style, the way of compassion in feeling and expression; she never misses any chance, wherever or whenever she can contribute by a suggestion or a correction.


“Well, you see if you really want to thank me be practical and don’t be so introvert that you find yourself alone in the world. All right?” She said.

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“Oh, yaw. Sometimes, I forget that life is an eternal process of continuity. You think deeply; I accept your idea thankfully,” he replied.


“You see it’s the moon; receiving the light from the everlasting ideas that we share as the humans, isn’t it. All right, here comes your next poem, the name of the poem is, ‘Why’ and it says:






‘Why’


With my most sensitive feelings and emotions

I could search no way to understand

Why only right, just and honest has to

Suffer; yes suffer for no reason,

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“Yaw, you’re right. You see sometimes, I feel that I’m not fully dedicated to duty and discipline. This makes me feel that I’m not humble. I’ll try to improve,” he said.


“Well, keep going, while keeping the hopes as the guiding star, you’ll learn a lot. Your next poem is having name, ‘Life and Me’ and it says:

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After my reading the poem, Bhagouauty gave the other poems to Monica and she read all of them. These were saying something similar as she read.


“All right, let’s now read the next poem, it’s named, ‘I’m Not Humble’, now I read it:



‘I’m Not Humble’


Seek it not for not to be humble is

Worse, side of life and indeed

It’s false side of virtue.

May I increase the pride of others?

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“Well, it’s a wonderful poem, but is trying to hide the sky with your thunderous words by inviting the sky into the room. You see only the moons are allowed,” she said.


“Gosh, these moons are like honeybees revolving around the words and rotating around the feelings, the pivots aren’t the moons. You see we can’t afford to use expensive words, these need feelings which cost more than we can afford, isn’t it,” he said to me.


“Well, can you give me any example of such costly word,” I said.

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“Thanks, I’ll read about gathering,” I said.


She gave it to me. I like to bring butterflies into the garden by the fragrance of words that offer comfort to the emotions and feelings.


“Let’s start reading it, it’s named, ‘Gathering’ and it says:



‘Gathering’


I’m here

Are you there?

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“Yaw, it’s the gift of surprise that we feel that we don’t deserve, yet we receive it. You see the creative arts and our moods make us wise. We’re civilized only if we can utilize knowledge. We may have abstract knowledge of meanings of words. However, if we can’t feel it, it is saying ‘honey’ and trying to feel its taste and just making our tongue feel funny. The fun of taste isn’t as real as we can have in real. I always wonder about our tongue, you see it can’t taste honey by uttering it needs the touch of honey. The warmth of a rich conversation is always very good. I enjoyed it.” I said.


“Yaw, the warmth of words gives this feeling of burning candle, the warmth of wisdom, isn’t it,” he said.


“You see mine is very cold,” Monica said.

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“I’m sorry, Bhagouauty," I said immediately.


“It’s all right. It doesn’t matter. What madam is saying seems right and I find that the creative arts like music and dance help to balance this gap between being scientific and artistic as these have touch of omniscience if we comprehend it philosophically, particularly the metaphors present in our knowledge, experiences, feelings and the ideas. That is why it seems that art is a universal asset, isn’t it?” He said.


I took a deep breath, but it was different. I was happy to see that he was back in the situation that popped without my intention for it.

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“Yaw, you’re right. Well, Drishta you know; the religions in its true form mean to unite human to human, and thus humans to nature. Do you agree that preaching is to spread the message of particular religion or may be philosophy? But if I say that a hungry person needs food, do you think it’s preaching?” He questioned me about such a big social problem.


“Drishta, why are you labeling human experiences? He’s just talking about the collective wisdom of humanity, which has evolved from human experiences. We’ve to remember that our evolution and age aren’t co-related. Rather, at the time when one harmonizes with humanly wisdom, the process of evolution starts like a candle once put on starts to spread its light. Anyway, we may talk about it some other time. Well! Bhagouauty do you’ve any poem with you?” Monica said.


“Yaw, I’ve some,” he replied.


He gave me a look as if wondering about what I had just said. I regretted knowing that the look might seem forceful, but it results when a child within cries.


The child’s trust in mother is stronger than faith.

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“Yaw, I’ve done PhD in Education from USA, with distinction and I’m proud of it,” I replied.


“Wow, it’s great! Marvelous, you see you might have felt the genuine relation between you and your home. This feeling of oneness has relatedness with what I’ve told you something about oneness with nature and her creation. Don’t you always remember that you’re an educationist? You know that when one talks with the feelings of oneness with anything the one will speak more than those who feel isolated will. Don’t you praise education more than all other subjects?” He asked me.


He seemed a bit arrogant, but I could understand that he was focusing and concentrating on what he was saying.

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“Well, it’s both prayer and thanksgiving. I remember those, who made it possible that we’ve food and those, who prepared it. I also remember those, who are hungry in the world and die without food. Then I thank that vital force whom some people call God and some call it Mother Nature, which control and direct the processes of growth and development of living things while non-living things support it,” he said.


It seemed that he was absent mentally as if having indulged in what he had just said. I looked at Monica. She smiled differently. I could understand it. It was just to convey that he does not need a rocket to leave the place where he is sitting. He can leave anytime to the cosmic peace garden.

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I may be a pivot of the moment, but center of attention is not a pivot, rather it is my personal charm that is both pivot and center.


I felt as if my mom was saying something, when I heard Monica’s motherly voice.

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For me, it was clear when they both looked at the meals then shared the feelings without saying anything. They just looked at each other as telling that the meals were ready. I was in my usual way of pondering over it.


I thought that illiteracy is not that we cannot read or write, rather it is there when we feel urge to convey everything in words. This literacy mission to observe silence and talk seemed the literacy.


If the words are just tools to please each other, we are poor because words cannot do it. On the other hand if we are silent just because we do not have words to say, we do not lack anything; we are rich.

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He was asking me while busy in both washing dishes. The questions were like honeybees trying to search the honey from the knowledge we were sharing.


I was enjoying these flowers of knowledge. The honeybee had done the work; the butterfly was ready to sit on my words as I replied,

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“Well, it’s an important point you see... He may ...no, he isn’t psychic in the metaphorical or abstract thinking pattern, the creative way of thinking,” I replied.


“You see here we’re, so, even if you’re not fully agreed, don’t you think that there’s something more which is beyond bookish knowledge?” He said.


“Yes, what is it?” I said.

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“Yes, it’s possible but needs more research on how to do so,” I replied.


“All right, now suppose one of the students comes to you and says that John has broken the fish of stone which was put on the fountain as if the fountain was coming out of its mouth. It may appear John is having a psychic problem. Won’t you believe it this way?” He asked.

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While washing the dishes, I asked him to understand about the oneness,


“Can you tell me please; what do you get from the the feelings of oneness?”


He looked at me as if I should ask this question to myself. I felt what he wanted to say. It was a humanly expression of the way he wanted to feel it that it was home for him not just a building where one visits.


The humanly feelings to share others personally seem to have not only the joy of what one is but also what one feels as one’s very own.


It was the way to say that he wanted to share; where we have our longing, belonging, relatedness and feelings of our own, the possessions that we like.


He could feel that I knew what I was asking; yet, for humanly humbleness he lifted the curtain of his visions about the garden of humanness through outspoken words,


“Well, would you ask a question when you know the answer?” He asked.


“Never, but you see I do understand what you want to say”, I said.


“Well, don’t you enjoy the peace which comes with union and oneness like husband and wife, mother and child, brother and sister and so on,” he asked.


“Yaw, you’re right, but sometimes we forget that oneness gives us stability of mind which results in peace,” I replied.


“Isn’t it a human right to enjoy peace without disturbing others while being with them?” He asked


“Of course, it’s,” I replied.


“You see you’re an educationist and know that when we put a question to the students they recall all that they’ve learned; isn’t it?


So, when we ask deep questions like you asked why I enjoy the feelings of oneness, do you think the answer can be given without my deep reflection about my experiences of oneness with nature in any form?” He said.


“Yaw, no doubt, I do agree,” I replied.


“OK, do you agree that transfer of training is applicable to all of our experiences,” he asked me.
















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After this, he was comfortable, and then he looked the books and magazines. My pondering turned into a wonder, as I suddenly heard my name,


“Drishta!” he said.


“Wait a minute; I’m coming,” I replied.


When I rushed and reached there, he asked me as if he was in some wonder,


“Do you believe in isolation or in oneness?”


“I believe in oneness, but why are you asking me; you see I can’t digest it. Anyway, it’s an art, isn’t it,” I replied.


“Yes, oneness is an art of learning and living,” he said.


“Please, let me wash the dishes with you for the sake of feeling part of this home and your family” he requested.


I did not wish it, but I could not resist. I knew it was the process of his personalization of thoughts and feelings, as he wanted it as a natural part of his life.


However, it appeared a kind of obsession, the feeling or impulse that one cannot control.


I did not say anything because I wanted to learn about compassion as in my opinion the obsession was part of passion for such creative people. I looked at his smiling face waiting for my reply.


“All right come with me,” I said
















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It seemed an art of making of our personal life enriched with feelings that the civilized people want to have just by self-felt feelings as humans.


I felt that it was the selection of what one could like to have and share while choosing from the crowd of ideas, thoughts, emotions and feelings. It was the thing so precious that it could be for VIP’s only.


The personal life would then become the room for the VIP, our self that always shares the treasure with body, mind, heart and the soul. I had to think and accept it as if the voice of conscious having conversations with our self as if we were sitting in the garden of our inner self.


The personal life, where only few people can access, seems the garden, where one lives as a gardener.


I had this joy when I ponder over many issues related to my personal life. It simply seems self-acceptance that never needs our making claims because it is just a personalized feeling without words.


I realized that he was making oneness with the room just to feel it as his personal.


It was as if the new butterflies and birds would have entered in his own peace garden within while he seemed to allow these to enter and have placed to sit and sing.
















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The meaning was so significant that I could read it on his face with wide and bright opened eyes. It was as if he was expressing his feelings of self-witness.


I liked it to notice that sometimes we express as if we are giving self-witness that we know, understand and comprehend what we say. I felt it and the words were flying with wings of the feelings as I said,


“Wow, it’s amazing I’ll always remember it. The self-witnessing, the way on which I walk doesn’t speak, yet leads. Now time to lead, excuse me please, you see I’ve to wash the dishes, please let me leave for sometime.”


“Well, on this road we all are companions, isn’t it? Well, Drishta, I wish to wash dishes with you, would you allow me?” He said.


“No. Gosh, you see it doesn’t look nice because you’re our guest. Please be seated,” I said.


“OK, as you wish,” he replied.


He sat there and I saw that he was looking around, while sitting there, the pictures, portraits and the setting of the room along with decoration of the room. This decoration was adding beauty to the garden that he seemed to keep in his mind where entry for few new thoughts, ideas and feelings were waiting, as if butterflies, for his allowing enter into his garden of thoughts and emotions.


It was a good experience to know that some people do not allow new and fresh arrivals without their own test of passing by self-felt feelings as he said the feelings of observer and thus learning to be an observer.


I could notice that his self-observer was the in-charge of his garden checking and marking the card of self-felt feelings for permission to enter and have the joy of being personal and part of his personal peace garden of life.
















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She smiled and left. While sitting with more comfort, he looked at me. I could see in his eyes that he did not lack anything.


I had just flashing thought that the kitchen is a garden of food, and working like a honeybee is to extract the honey from it, the nutrients. You see it is just a wonder of making the meals from the foods.


A welcoming smile offering thanksgiving to the hands that cook the food was on my face. He was enjoying it. I looked at him.


“May I know your good name, please,” he asked.


“Well, my name is ready in my mind and while landing on my tongue, kindly receive it, my name is Drishta,” I replied.


“Received with thanks, it’s a beautiful name meaning witness,” he said it with a smile.


“Wow, is it really, I didn’t know its meaning before. My grandfather gave me this nickname” I replied.


“Wow, your grandfather seems wiser for choosing the names, isn’t it,” he said.


“Yaw, he is a great scholar. Can you tell me please, is it simply witness like in the court?” I asked.


“No, not exactly, though very close to what really it means; you see it’s witnessing like an observer, the self-witness” he replied.


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I felt that the fair dealings are from the heart; our mind just helps to use it properly. It was funny to imagine that mind cannot produce emotion, the intellect does not understand the touch and taste of it.


The mind has the parameter to check the level of emotions as if rating it with sensitivity, the pathway towards emotional maturity.


It was clear to me that it also a different experience to feel the flying butterfly and the honeybee. Sometimes, the honeybee seems to enjoy the flower, while on the other times it seems to extract the honey from it.


The butterfly is different, it enjoys as if adding its beauty to the flowers, for me it was the beautifying the sight of flowers with butterflies sitting and wandering around it.


I had the answer that it was not only the secret of rich smile but also finding the key to the treasure of humanly feelings; that could enriches the child within us to enjoy the beauty in the whole like in the garden.


The shared deep smile turned into words which seemed twinkling stars in the sky of smile while making the faces look like the moon,


“Wow, it’s great and wonderful. Bhagouauty, it’s nice to see you again,” she said with a smile.


“Thanks, madam, you see I’m happy to be here, it’s like my homing coming otherwise visiting home is just a formality, isn’t it,” he said.


“Gosh, we honor your coming home. It’s good to hear and see you smiling again.” She replied.


“Thanks, I always smile when I see those going on the road that conveys its legendary message saying miles to go before we sleep,” he said while smiling.


“You’re right, just walk…I mean talk to my brother, while I finish some pending works in the kitchen. You see if I do many works the pending may be bending of my back. I don’t want to give it a trouble, you know, it is my best tip; take care of your back and there’s nothing that you may ever lack, isn’t it. Have a nice time. OK! I’m leaving to the garden of food to honor the meals” she said.


We had a rich laughter, so healthy that I felt strength of humanly bonds.


“OK, thanks, your tip is like a trip for better health.” he said.


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“Well, I don’t play with the words I just want to enjoy the feelings that these carry for pouring water into our eyes so that we may have tears of joy; isn’t it the beauty of words?” He said and smiled.


“Yaw, with poet’s eye only. Please come and have a seat, while I wash the dishes and Monica prepares the food. Monica…! Bhagouauty has arrived.” I told her.


While he followed my voice by moving his eyes towards the kitchen, I could see the sensitivity follow the words and feelings as if nature has the peace garden of words and feelings.


Many butterflies entered to touch these flowers of sensitivity; when she came to drawing room and while approaching us, she welcomed Bhagouauty. I wondered on the smiles that they shared.


I felt as if they could see the garden in its full blossom. Thinking of few things in the garden and the garden in its full was the difference that I could notice. I realized that the acceptance of one as the one is the full beauty of the smile that natural comes while doing so.


I did not have words for it knowing that imprisonment by words could bring the prison for the sensitive feelings. This was my first and the last experience when I met him for the first time.


It was not fear; instead, it was my learning to care for those, who care.


It had nothing to do with give and take method that we can apply to solve the riddles of emotions seeking our mind to stop interfering in the matters of dealings that are always fair in the water of joy that tears cannot hide in compassion.


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We looked at each other and the words blinking on tongue found the tune of harmony and left my tongue to reach where it could have sense, meaning and feeling as I knocked at his ears with it,


“Good Evening and welcome to our nest where we forget the world to rest. I’m pleased to see you again. Well, we just forget to tell you when to come, sorry for that,” I said.


“Good Evening, please don’t make me feel like a stranger would feel, it doesn’t matter. Rather, I’m sorry if I’m early or late,” he said.


“How can you be late? I wonder if you could come bit early, perhaps in the evening. In any case, it’s all right, you are welcome anytime. Let us go inside to find out whether the sun rises early or sets late.” I said with a little laughter.


“Well, it depends on the clouds not on the Sun. If there are clouds, it may be either early or late. You see it just depends; you know. Your house is like a home,” he said.


“Hey; what do you mean it looks like a home, it’s our home?” I was surprised.


“Well, it looks like my home. I hope you’d allow me to have this feeling,” he said.


“I’m sorry; I can’t allow you until you allow me feel it as our home. You always play with words,” I said.


(It is next part of the series ending at the Final PART of last one. Thanks!)


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He was looking at my face enjoying the vision in my eyes and I smiled knowing that we both could feel the simile of thought and emotion.


He was shaking hand with me as if the pigeon arrives back from the sky and shakes its head just leaving a small grass leaf that the Sun has made dry for its nest.


I welcomed him knowing that it was now time for pigeons to share, so were we just entering into the nest while the words started to chirp on our tongues.


My tongue felt as if missing the tune so only the words that come without effort would bring my body and mind in tune with him to keep the vision present in our feelings.


We left the cosmic sight outside and carried its beauty inside while the words showered the moonlight of snow that was glowing on our faces.


I could feel the snow melting into twinkling words.


P.S.: Now, in the next series of articles, which are in the form of fiction, we are going to learn about how to interact with the youngsters, the evergreen and the sensitive people-the creative thinkers and scientific feelers. Thanks!


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The spell of the beautiful sky was beyond my imaginations. It was simply the feelings and the joy of wonder.


The sky was full of cosmic beauty and I went to enjoy the glory of galaxy as if it was a joy where I spread my vision through the eyes, which I could not know when I opened the door and started to enjoy it.


I cannot say if I was not aware about his standing outside, because his presence made this sight, the blend of source and offspring.


The presence of good ideas and imaginations has offspring that touches all flowers of the cosmic peace garden like a butterfly.


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We happened to forget to tell Bhagouauty when he might come to our home. Without having his phone or mobile contact, we had no idea how to convey it, but to wait was like an engage tone as if dialing him to reach at the time that pleases him and us. We did not have to wait for it for long.


He reached when my sister was preparing food and I was washing the dishes.


He ranged the bell and I just looked from the window it was clear like sky that garden of stars and moons was over his head while the twinkling stars seemed like butterflies and moonlight falling as if snowfall making the night similar to the garden that was coming with its beautiful sight. The garden of cosmic sky looks like the Peace Garden of Mother Nature, which was similar to the Eden Garden.


While enjoying this vision of my thoughts, I was pondering if I could enjoy the same while standing in front of our own house.


It was so beautiful outside to see the moonlight falling on the snow making each bit of it twinkling like a star, that the spell and the stance of it was on my eyes and mind.


This showering of stars moved my eyes, as if moving towards the sky without my effort.


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“Well, it seems to me that you misunderstood it. Yoga stands for our harmony with nature and makes us naturalist. To be spiritual means that our body, mind, heart and the soul are spiritually, I mean all together in harmony with nature for which he seeks help. This help isn’t easy to give and receive. I wish I could explain it. You see it’s seeking detachment for the sake of duty. It’s, thus the maturity of emotions,” she said.


I did not reply, but it made me think and ponder over it. We reached home, but I was not satisfied because I have a different concept of emotional maturity. Therefore, I wanted to know more about him.


I had read many books on spiritualism, so I could comprehend Monica and Bhagouauty but I could not conclude why he was getting medical treatment while at the same time he said that he was doing yoga or perhaps meditation.


The best way, I thought, was better to ask him. I believe that the art of questioning is the most difficult part of learning; however we can learn it without effort if we know that we always need to ask as a child.


The child asks without any hesitation and we as grown start to lose the sense and need of curiosity. I always want to feel the words that I hear and read. Therefore, I left the idea to mature until dinner.


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We left the place while going towards the gate of the peace garden opening the new and fresh page of our daily works. While we were leaving, he was looking at us as if we were leaving him forever. I could understand it.


Elene then, it seemed an extreme of sensitivity. My knowledge and intellect could not stop me uttering words;


“Well, I feel, I mean, anyway, he seems to be a difficult person to understand,” I said to Monica.


“Not at all, he’s like that because of his thinking about those issues which are related with nature and her creation. He doesn’t bother much about what seems important to everyday life at the cost of ignoring long-term issues of life. I know him more than you do. His simplicity sometimes gives an impression of as complexity of his personality and behavior. It’s so from his school days,” she replied.


“Well, it may be, but why does he bother about such complicated issues?” I was curious.


“Well, you see it’s the part and parcel of one’s personal life. You always think about your field. Why do you think about education?” She asked.


“It’s because I’m educationist, isn’t it,” I said happily and confidently.


“Yaw, and can’t you feel it that similarly, he’s a naturalist and humanitarian, so he can’t give up pondering and thinking about nature and humanity,” she said.


“I’m sorry, Monica. I thought that he was a pretender when he was talking of yoga and development of body, mind and spirit. Excuse me, please; don’t you think that he’s trying to convey that he’s a yogic or spiritual person?” I said.


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“Well, you see you know what seems to me…as if a child within you isn’t able to comprehend the difference between mistake and innocence. However, never allow the child within die, as it’s our creativity. I hope you will always remember and keep it up this rich humanly feelings you know, you’re having a great wealth, which if you share, it’ll increase like watering the trees increases the fruits. Will you keep it up, please?” She said as if requesting confidently.


I could see hope in her eyes that was higher than sympathy. It was the feeling of compassion; not the sympathy, in the words


“Yaw, I’ll always remember it. Thanks a lot,” he replied.


“You’re always welcome and thanks a lot, Bhagouauty for sharing your beautiful poems,” she said.


“You’re most welcome. Gosh, you know, madam, I just feel as if I’m born again, I always want to feel like a child and think like a wise.” He was very pleased, and what he received from this compassion was that he regained his natural smile.


“You see you’ve it; your smiles say it all. I’m happy to see it. Well, we’ve the camel waiting for us, the works of today. OK, I wish well for your future and we should be leaving now,” she said.


“Thanks, it was nice to see you after so long,” he said.


“Same is here, thanks,” she said.


“OK, bye, see you later,” we both said with a shared smile.


“OK, bye, and thanks,” he bowed his head.


"You're welcome,"


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