How to Learn Self-Counseling-The Philselfology as the Multiple Counseling for Law of Affinity to Boost Law of Attraction for Empowering Youth for Enjoying Satisfaction as a Child in Rain and Rainbow - 19

“Well, you see the personal life is the instrument that we can play alone like making a prayer. The society this way seems the orchestra and the person in our contact sometimes doesn’t stop playing one’s instrument so that we could enjoy the social orchestra. This makes the conversation just a noise of words having no rapport and we can’t enjoy,” she said.


“How can we enjoy, when we don’t know how to feel and enjoy what we are doing?” I said smilingly.




“Try to remember the rainbow,” she said.


“Wow, I remember it now, but I’m grown up and lack the advantages that the children have. You see they can do this, they make mistakes and laugh, and we the elders can’t laugh because have lots of paraffin to burn, just see the child looking at the burning candle, the glow of the candle can be seen at his face, isn’t it?” I said.


“Wow, it’s wonderful, but you see you seem wrong you can always remain a child for feelings. We grow biologically, and psychologically, but maturity doesn’t mean that we’ve detached from the childhood, it’s the maturity of our feelings that we’ve invested in our self as emotions, isn’t it. You see the moments come to us and we seek advantage from it at the cost that we can’t enjoy it, isn’t it, Bhagouauty,” she said to him.


“Yaw, you see we keep on collecting good moments while waiting that a day will come when we’ll celebrate and enjoy it in a big way. The joy remains present in all moments it just needs us to see if we can admire what nature does. Whatever happens at any moment, we seem ready to find fault in Mother Nature if it doesn’t suits us. We seek rain, while raining, we’re afraid of flood, so we seem in hurry for worry about what may follow the moment representing the present. As the rain at present might lead to flood, isn’t it? We’re laborers working hard to have joy without enjoying the moments that are hiding some rare feelings, the joy of satisfaction. What do you think and feel about it?” He said to me.

It was time to think for self counseling as what I know as hard work and labor was meaningless in the context that he expressed. We can find faults, but to fix it seems more difficult than our laborious hard work that we tend to substitute for the escaping. I was going to face from what I tend to escape.


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