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“Well, you see we’ve the thought of the candles and burning it; isn’t it. OK, what we need to do now is to have one more retreat. This retreat is for management of time energy and its management for emotional and intellectual energy. Please don’t interrupt, it’s a simple thing. Just imagine about the four candles in which only one is burning; for how long can it burn?” He asked.


“Well, you see it can burn at most for an hour, I suppose, isn’t it,” I replied.


“Yaw, you’re right. You see there’s a time limit for each burning candle, isn’t it. The duration for which it can burn is the time energy that it posses, isn’t it,” he said.


“Wow, it’s right; you see after burning for an hour it has no energy to burn, but how can we’ve more time energy, if we need,” I asked.

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“Well, it doesn’t matter, I can’t panic, I can have all other candles burning on with this one, isn’t it,” I said.


“Isn’t it amazing that you’re not sad about seeing three candles not burning, a moment ago, you were sad to imagine that two candles are burning and two aren’t burning?” He said.


“Wow, it’s an imaging idea; you see I don’t understand it. I feel that the thought of one burning candle can’t allow me to compare all of the four candles, but it’s a wonderful idea, isn’t it,” I said.


“All right, now suppose you’ve to compare it; how will do it?” He asked.

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“Hey, why are you getting angry, you’re using your thoughts like honeybees and can’t find the honey in the candles that aren’t burning? Just imagine for the sake of candles and our idea that the thoughts rob honey from our flowers of feelings on the plant of emotions, isn’t it,” he said.


“Gosh, these seem the crazy thoughts. OK, I’ve four candles in my imaginations, but these aren’t burning, what I should do, can I lit one by one or all together,” I asked.

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“No, we’ve come to the conclusive stage; we’ll retreat, while deliberating about all steps. The first retreat, well you see this retreat is simply surrender of thoughts to have a touch of common sense or wisdom, OK, just imagine you’ve the same candles, OK. The new thought with surrender is that you’ve two candles burning and other two not burning. Just remember, meanwhile that you’re recalling the same candles for a comparison, all right,” he said.


“Well, you see I can enjoy the two burning candles, while the set of two that isn’t burning seems to make me feel bit sad, isn’t it, but why” I said.

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“Well, the next step is that in your next thought you’re going to blow off the first candle that is burning,” he said.


“Gosh, I can have this thought, but you see it doesn’t look nice. Anyway, I’m blowing it off. It goes off, now I’ve one candle burning and the first one not burning, I can enjoy what I did, but not the thought that I’ve blown off one candle. It doesn’t give great charm, isn’t it,” I said.


“Well, we’ve to go to next step. Now, have a thought of blowing the second candle off as well,” he said.

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“Well, it sounds good. Let’s take an example. Suppose I’ve a thought of burning candle. How can you say that it depends on imaginations, can you tell me, please?” I asked.


“OK, let’s move ahead step by step. You’ve thought of a candle in your mind, isn’t it,” he said.


“Yaw, I’ve thought of a candle in mind, but I said it’s a thought of burning candle, you remember,” I replied.


“OK, did you light the candle on?” He asked.


“Well, no, I’ve the thought of burning candle, why do I need to lit it on, it’s already on, isn’t it,” I said.

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“Well, you see the anger is just a mood, like a strong wave in the emotional energy seeking a way-out. In other words, when a desire isn’t fulfilled anger usually follows it. It’s a call for emotional management. You know it very well that management without a supervisor and observer isn’t possible. Do you understand what I mean?” He said.


“Gosh, you see I do understand that the anger is just self-defense for the stability of our emotions. That is why we need emotional management, isn’t it so?” l replied.