Problem of Ego as Gender - Should a Bride be Treated well only on the Marriage Ceremony?

What Jane Austin wrote in her novel "Pride and Prejudice" gave me great insight. I have greatly appreciated two ladies,

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without ever ignoring Florence Nightingale (The Crown of Red Cross)

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though the common point in the great women has been the majestic respect that they received - an honor they deserve. Men always have tried to be the kings and now made this world male power, the ego gender called new world order. The woman in the New World Order, the process of modernization has no significant place.

I believe if women are not proper respect and honor in a majestic way (not a pride but feeling proud of them that helps to have feelings of reverence and thus respect), the societies and cultures may turn into a survival fight as if in the jungles, the tribal people used to possess women as if animals as if to show that they have them as queens, a false recognition to fool  them.

We know what mother, sister, cousin, wife, daughter and so many other relations have great depth and thus deserve a great honor. It is breaking up and the men gets superiority just by proving that the
modern men can have herd of women as fans or friends. It is psychological cheating in the absence of any philosophy and ethics that could have given added value system to our families both in the
east and the west.

So, we may ponder:

Should a bride be treated well only on the marriage ceremony?

My answer is no. What about other places that signify woman deserving respect and honor due to gender?

Thus, it seems to me at times that some men and even some women have ego as their gender. Now the concept of Tom Boy is an issue that may or may not be relevant as being brave is different from being egoistic or ironically accepting ego as a gender.

The above 3 women, Jane Austin, Florence Nightingale  are from the west, and Mother Teresa lived and passed away in India. I respected Carol Roach as following the Golden Footprints left by the great Women of the World, particularly the in the West. She is also my ideal writer and a counselor.

There is a very good series about women written by Carol Roach:

Women's Series Part 1 on the Women's Series starts today

Title: When Women Were not Considered to be Persons

Excerpt: Any university sociology class we tell you how a woman's place was in the home, to cook clean and bare children for her husband. She was not allowed to think, the husband was the master of the house and she did his bidding. We also know that through time there were courageous women who fought the patriarchal system and fought for their own rights; and some actually fought for all women's rights.

Please click on this link to read the article:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1874893/when_women_were_not_considered_to_be.html?cat=37

Thanks for your reading it.

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