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“Well, we look certain traits in a child and make it a case of follow up; it misses the totality that is present within the child. We do it because we can’t find the seven colors in the white. Even if a child seem to have choice for a certain color it doesn’t ensure that the choice has been made, rather we may have failed to explain the importance of other colors that the child doesn’t like. It seems funny when we compare it with music. We can’t say that one likes a part of gamut as if some colors out of seven. I find it amazing that the art of music is blend as that of the colors; isn’t it,” I said.

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“OK, you see we know the reason and causes of whatever happen to such an extent that we’re also addicted of this knowledge and want to lit the candle with knowledge alone. In our knowledge the emotional, rather the creative people can’t find feelings, the fire that may burn their candles. The joy that the compass indicate the direction is a miracle of nature not our invention. We may just show the compass to a child, and observe how it sees it and wonders about this miracle. The child is bestowed with poet’s eye, but this art isn’t of words, rather it’s of feeling. Slowly, while learning words and the meanings, we find that the metaphor is hidden in the compass only, the ship seems flying on the ocean of words without the air of feelings. The child feels that the direction isn’t important as we seek it that it should react that we should be asked for it, the wonder of direction, isn’t it,” he said.

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The magnet has two opposite poles, but it co-exits with affinity and creates the magnetic field. The iron cannot do it. However, if we align the atoms of iron in one direction the magnet is formed. The creative people can magnetize the thoughts and emotions as the poles of magnet of intelligence in this context. The wonder also lies in it that the same is true with the semiconductors, in which the insulators participate as the conductors.


Thus, they, the creative ones create literature from words, music from sounds and paintings from colors and so on that we cannot count. It was a time for me to refresh and regain the prima factor of the discussion, while making reflection as a review on a comment on what he was saying.


However, I did not need, as he proceeded with the power of resonance in his next idea.

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“All right, you see, here’s the point. He’s not overemphatic; it’s a one of the ways to draw other person’s attention with richness of concentration. This is part of counseling, I see, OK; keep going I just want to listen and will speak when I feel so,” she said.


“Well, I’ve a poem about it, and we may share it,” he said.

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“Well, I understand what you mean our positive behavior and right frame of mind is like a compass for others. We seem to teach, the compass doesn’t teach, it simply gives the direction like option. We usually believe that option and choice is the same thing. Therefore, we seem to teach how one should feel, but it doesn’t seem possible. You know, the people with same options have different feelings. Our attempt to make children feel the way others feel doesn’t seem the right way. You see we can’t imitate the feelings, but the behavior is an imitated practice of an individual. Then how can we understand the causes of delinquency and what we label as bad character?” I said.

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“Hey, are you there? Wow, you know, you’re right; I feel that we seek to see the individual behaving in a conditioned way; I mean the way we expect to see in accordance with the image we’ve formed for the person. It doesn’t allow the person to react differently. This seems suppression of creativity that we may be blocking just because we block our reactions towards an individual behaving differently at some occasions and moments; I mean the situations. If a sad person laughs, angry shows courtesy, brave cries, compassionate ignores the practice of affection, person usually showing awfulness expresses wonder, and so on, all makes us rigid emotionally as if we’re seeking no change within us, and thus among others, isn’t it,” he said.

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I knew only very little about it. The knowledge about the psychosomatic faculty goes immediately to catch these words. It was the same reaction; I was having, as he had for some terms and words in the psychology. It was going to be a turning point in the discussion.


“Well, you see the psychic center is like a meeting center for our five senses. The senses perceive and when the facts are placed on the table of psychic center, the decision is given emotionally. We may ponder for a while to have a touch from the intellect as an anchor for this emotional elephant and compass for the ship in the ocean of emotions, isn’t it?” He said.