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The marriages are one of the most intercultural factors in human life. We notice that it differs a lot in east and west. Moreover, it also differs when we consider ancient and modern marriages. The marriages have been of ordinary people, the public and that of the kings and queens.
In
my personal opinion, the ordinary person is a one, who assumes one self
a human only. The others are just possession based recognitions.
As we discuss in this article the reasons why Indians, and many modern
people seem to ignore the importance of taking care of family.
The family is the secret of life.
The kings used to have many wives, but many lived as if a virgin. It is
based on the point that it was king, who used to decide which wife would be the
main wife for the day. The kings used to have many wives. However, the queens
in India were not allowed to go to outside the royal family for being conceived
and thus give birth from other than the
king.
The ordinary people
on the other hand have many children, who would always struggle to be
something, and it has a strong reasons. According to Manu Ji, and other Indian Health and other Ancient Scriptures, the child is a soul, who is invited in a
special environment. I have written and produced an approved pilot passed two episodes about it.
The ordinary people had to wait for years to give birth to great people
based on the fact both male and female need to be prepared for it together.
The king would notice and discuss with all queens, what kind of child
they wanted. They would then follow all necessary actions and requirements for
giving births to great people, who would be the future kings or queens.
On the contrary, the ordinary
people lacking all facilities depended
on the natural environment that
would produce a great human. The greatest example for it is of Bhagat Prahlad.
He was taken away from the environment that could not support for inviting great
soul and thus great child in the Indian Civilization.
The people, who have misconception about kings in India that they had
many wives is not religious matter, but something that seems a disputable topic
among the youth and the teen. It seems that our youth assumes that the kings
and queens had only one work. Yes, the work that is of having the physical
pleasure all the times. As I have described the kings and queens did not go to
bed the way, as modern people seem to think. They have had the highest levels
of majesty, dignity, respect, honor and self-control, which ordinary people may
not have.
The child birth just after first one or two years seems a dream in India
as that is also a demanded male. Therefore, we may assume that one marries and
goes to give birth to a great child without planning, preparation and following
what is the requirement set by the physicians including the Ayurveda for it.
Now, most of the young people assume that people in the west have physical
relations before 20’s and thus they may not plan for great children. It is not
so. In the western culture, the first thing is friendship, then after sometime,
the engagement takes place.
Lastly, the marriage is done for householder’s life. The planning of expected
child is same as it was in the past, the ancient aspect as the kings had. The
rest is same as in India. The early Indians would go for engagement when boy
and girl were children, they would marry early, and then give birth to too many
children. Now, the need of few children differs from the great concern people
have had.
For example, the Punjab state has been a land of farmers. You know,
when mother have five brothers, only one would marry and others never bothered
about it. Then, the married couple would give birth to the many healthy
children as the entire grandparents
supported it.
The times changed and engagement, marriage and friendship patterns changed entirely. Now,
we have unplanned children and if absorption
is the only solution it is
of a girl child. Some abort child as before marriage it seems a kind of wrong
act. However, the great Indians have had single mothers, as it was the case
with Kunti Ji, the mother of Five Pandav’s.
The youth and teen can look at the sociological history that western
people have not changed their original way of married life. The Modern Indians seem
to have changed a lot. They seem to have wrong opinions about the kings and
queens, western family planning and thus girl abortion
is very vivid.
Parents need to share the great idealism that lies in the name of
calling for great souls to take birth in the families. When people in east
pressurize too much for marriage, early birth as just after 2 years of marriage,
priority for male child and so on, we cannot expect that such psychological pressures
can bring great Indians for future.
The other point is seeking marriage and birth too early after marriage
and priority for male child harms the married couple not just psychologically,
sociologically, culturally and lot more, but disgraces the Indian Civilization.
We can think about it, as we are humans and have abilities to respect
women as Shri Guru Nanak says:
Let us always respect any woman because she gives birth to great humans,
including the kings. (It refers to great people, who take care of others at a
very high level).
It
is what seems How Indian Youth Thinks about Kings, Queens, Royals,
Marriage, Child Birth, Ancient and Modern Life: Similarities and
differences.
We all need to think so that we can wish all great souls having a better
time on our earth!
Thanks for your time to read.
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